Fertility Funding Help Page

£1,280 of £7,000 goal

Raised by 22 people in 25 months
Hey guys some people may herd of our story on tv we’re trying to fund our fertility treatment cost since losing our twin babies at 12 weeks so far ourselfs have raised £1020 and climbing any help towards this would be greatly appriciated thankyou x
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October is miscarriage awareness month as part of the 1 in 4 people who have lost there angel/s I’d like to share my deepest condolences to all who share this pain my story is I’ve always wanted to be a mum since secondly school I finaly got to a good place and at 21 I went to my doctors for the first time ever to start my journey as a single lesbian mother witch I knew would face a whole lot of different challenges for me already I was referred to James cooks fertility clinc were I started having lots of tests and a operation witch I was sure I could start treatment with them after forward 3 years I was told I was completely healthy fertilie and ready! then come the bomb shell I was given information on private clincs and told I don’t qualify for any help unless I complete 6 cycles of iui privately my world crumbled how do I afford that much money! Why do can people just get pregnant for no cost but not me I went through emotions trying so hard to understand and justify there decision then I met Sarah after an abusive relationship she became the light in my dark place so I kept going with my goal to insted become a family not a single mother ❤️ We herd about trying through Facebook to find a donor so our plea started 3 years of posting in groups everyday saving money for any potential donors accommodation and petrol costs and nothing so we did somthing I’d never do if it wasn’t for how badly and painfully I wanted this we took our story to the papers after been contacted to share our story we recived a lot of hate told that “me and the baby we conceive should die through childbirth” and some of the most amazing and supportive people who totally understand our heartache it hit the radio tv and papers them somthing amazing happend we were contacted by a donor who looked as tho they could be my partners twin!!! (He wasn’t ) we tried first cycle after days of doing ovulation tests witch are very time consuming and constant worrying then it happend...WE FELL PREGNANT!! I had a bad case of morning sickness and cravings ❤️ 12 weeks of bliss and excitement at the upcoming scan date then our world fell apart once more I started bleeding heavily big blood clots and pain I knew straight away it wasn’t good phoned ward 9s early pregnancy unit and got a scan for the next morning as I laid on that bed tests rolling down my cheeks the sonographer turned to me and said I’m so sorry I can’t find a heart beat and there’s way to much pregnancy tissue to see baby properly I begged for that scan regardless I was admitted given 2 lots of pills to empty my womb then scan 2 came along baby number 2 what there’s twins!!! Sadly I had lost them too (was it the tablets or were they already gone we will never get to know ) they wouldn’t move and sadly it ended in a operation to remove everything MY BABIES!! after a week my partner lost her job for taking the week of work to sit at my hospital bed while I lost our babies somthing we shouldnt have had to worry about on top of it all We took a month off to regulate my next period and we took the pain and dived into trying again ( My strength astounded me ) after 4 more tired nothing my donor stopped donations due to personal issues and we were back to square one childless no baby to cuddle to child to focus on to help numb this pain of loss ( been a angel mums amazing don’t get me wrong I’m so proud of them there my life the reason I’m still trying to day ) so we took the plung and have gone privately and are at where we are today with the back breaking costs we have a goal to end this year to raise £200! By newyear we have the go fund me and my group Chelsea and Sarah’s fertility group doing raffles and trying to raise money that way and after all this I just hope that everyone gets the rainbow baby they deserve ❤️⭐️
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Hey guys to update i have saved £920 of my own money were now only £1780 away from the cost of our first treatment its been a ling journey heart breaking since losing our twins ill update closer to the time thankyou all for your support and donations i will
Prove they all gone to the lwc darlington clinic when i take some pictures on iui day! I can also screen shot my bank transfers to said clinic and screen shot emails i recive ❤️
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To the lovely guy wanting help I can't comment on here I have inboxed on Facebook thankyou xx
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Hey guys we no longer need funds to support treatments as we now have found a sperm donor offline with all relevant tests been done and paying it out of our own WORKING WAGES this page is now solely for others who are trying and we are now actively needing people who would benifit from this and to share there story's of how our page has helped I also need advice of been able to make this into a charity and have someone take this over while we concentrate of starting our journey into parenthood thanks!
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Dean Heeley
25 months ago
5
5

I would happily donate my sperm

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Aaliyah Black
25 months ago
5
5

Good luck with your find girls I hope you make it and have your happy family never mind the small minded people who comment

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Gilly Willy
25 months ago
4
4

After seeing the press try to make this look like a bad idea. I was prompted to donate! Good luck ladies and remember keep focused on acheiving your dreams! no publicity is bad publicity. Xx

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Jay Croll
25 months ago
1
1

How do we go about getting your help please Chelsea Sarah xxx

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£1,280 of £7,000 goal

Raised by 22 people in 25 months
Created February 5, 2017
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WY
£25
Wend Young
5 months ago

A little donation to help you both get closer to your dream I wish you both the best of luck and have everything crossed for you. Xxx

OA
£1,020
Owner of fund account
6 months ago (Offline Donation)
2
2

Me and my partners savings so far in the london womens clincs saving account

£15
Gemma Toomer
25 months ago
1
1

all the best x

MH
£20
michael hudston
25 months ago
1
1

Goodluck to both of you.

LL
£30
Lucia Lacchin
25 months ago
1
1

Just a small amount to help you reach your goal.. I hope lots of other people will help you as every person has the right to have a baby if they want to and lots of times for gay/lesbian people is not so easy as for straight ones. Hope that one day you will have a wonderful son /daughter as our. X

SS
£10
Sam Sainty
25 months ago (Offline Donation)
1
1
£10
Anonymous
25 months ago
£5
Anonymous
25 months ago
£25
Sarah McElvaney
25 months ago

Good luck to you both! x

Dean Heeley
25 months ago
5
5

I would happily donate my sperm

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Aaliyah Black
25 months ago
5
5

Good luck with your find girls I hope you make it and have your happy family never mind the small minded people who comment

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Gilly Willy
25 months ago
4
4

After seeing the press try to make this look like a bad idea. I was prompted to donate! Good luck ladies and remember keep focused on acheiving your dreams! no publicity is bad publicity. Xx

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Jay Croll
25 months ago
1
1

How do we go about getting your help please Chelsea Sarah xxx

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