Help Chase and his family.
Dearest family and friends.
Our baby boy Chase died Sunday April 30th, 2017. He was 10 years old. Our hearts are completely shattered and now we must stand strong to begin a very different life, one that we could never have imagined. This gofundme account will remain open for donations. All additional and remaining funds will be committed to helping find a cure and to help bring Chase’s dreams to life.
Below is the story we first shared.
What is Happening to our son Chase:
At this time you are aware that our beautiful 9 year old boy Chase is facing the very scary possibility that he has gliomatosis cerebri. This form of brain cancer has no known cure.
This all began when we discovered that Chase's right eye suddenly wasn't working quite right so we took him to an ophthalmologist on 2/4/16, the day after his 9th birthday. After the exam a first set of MRI scans were immediately taken and reviewed. Currently Chase has undergone a second brain MRI, spinal MRI, blood tests and a lumbar puncture to retrieve spinal fluid. All tests for any other condition (Lyme, MS, etc) have come back negative and the scans further support gliomatosis cerebri (GC). He's been a complete angel through ALL of it and we are getting strength from him. This Friday (March 4th) he is scheduled for a brain biopsy at Sloan Kettering in NYC. This procedure will provide the final diagnosis and determine a course of action.
GC is very rare and only 100 cases appear annually so there is not a lot of research on how to treat it effectively. It is largely inoperable, not very respondent to chemo and radiation, and at this time "universally" fatal. The average patient lives 1-2 years from diagnosis. We are terrified, stunned, heartbroken, and struggling to handle this crushing prognosis for Chase, who is a ray of sunshine and makes people around him happy on a daily basis.
We are blessed with a strong and supportive family, a group of friends we would never trade, and a small town that rallies to support families in need. In less than a month we have been more than overwhelmed by the thoughts, prayers, , food, visits, hugs, and open ended giving from those who love Chase. We are truly in awe and grateful.
Our Family Request:
We ask only that you be very careful not to discuss this with your children. Please let us explain. His understanding of what is happening to him is that the best doctors are trying to find the bad part of his brain that is affecting his eye. As his parents our burden is to shield him from unnecessary fear and worry. Children are innocent and share information with one another. It would be EXTREMELY upsetting to find out that a class mate confronted Chase with details unknown to him or his brother Ryder.
How you can Help:
Through this fight our family needs to be together with Chase as much as possible, not far away behind a desk pushing paper. There undoubtedly will also be unforeseen medical expenses. Your contributions can and will help.
· Give directly to Chase's Fund and
· You can buy a really COOL shirt, or mug, Design by Chase! Bring part of Chase into your life and give his creativity as a gift to those you love. More cool designs will come. (All 100% Chase Balay Design Originals!).
Our son Chase has always had an indescribable need to create. Weird, strange, funny and loving images fill our home. His creations are absolutely never boring or dull. Every day is filled with unexpected and wonderful surprises. The beautiful and imaginative world of Chase Balay makes living better.
Pray for our baby. From our hearts - Thank you.
Chase's Mommy & Papa. (Julie & Erik)
This is just a quick reminder that any updates about Chase and our family are available through: www.caringbridge.org
Once you sign in, simply enter his name "Chase Balay".
Yesterday we visited and spoke with doctors about available treatments that are best suited for our angel. Please visit caringbridge.org for full detailed updates. Julie and I are looking at every option very carefully.
Everyone's continued love, prayers and support gives us the strength we need. Our deepest gratitude to all who have and continue to be there for us through this horrible time.
"I speak for myself and Erik when I say that we are completely in awe of the generosity of our family, friends, and complete strangers. We pray for a miracle and thank you for making these donations so that we can spend more time with our wonderful son. There are really not enough words to express our gratitude."
Yesterday was incredibly difficult. To find the words and clarity in which to share what is happening with all of you took its toll. Then only moments later to hear a phone that would not stop chirping as one after another wonderful person sent support. This went on for hours. Never could I imagine such a response. Never did I think we had so many friends. Our baby will be in the hospital this Friday and he is so brave! Your love and generosity is amazing. Thank you thank you. Please share Chase's story. Please get a shirt or mug that he designed. It will make you smile. It will make him smile.
I speak for myself and Erik when I say that we are completely in awe of the generosity of our family, friends, and complete strangers. We pray for a miracle and thank you for making these donations so that we can spend more time with our wonderful son. There are really not enough words to express our gratitude.
Please help me get my fight and story out! God bless you and your family.. My prayers are with you!
Sorry spell check said Chad we all know it's Chase
I was at englewood hospital the day you n your family were. I texted friends to pray as I will continue to do. Prayers always helps. God bless Chad & entire Balay family
Jesucristo Te sane niño lindo.