MS Ability Alliance

One of the All-Time Great Bromances: Stephen and Mike

(Or, as Stephen affectionately called him, Consuel)

Some friendships stand the test of time, and then there are friendships like Stephen and Mike’s — legendary in their own right. These two were more than just friends for over 30 years; they were family.

When Stephen was diagnosed with MS, nothing changed between them. Their connection didn’t falter — if anything, it deepened. Mike never saw Stephen for his illness; he saw his friend. He never hesitated to help — whether that meant lending a hand with meals or offering support in small, unseen ways. There was no pity, no awkwardness. Just love, loyalty, and laughter — always laughter.

We often joked that Stephen played a role in Mike finding love, too. When Mike began dating his now-wife Carol, we all went to dinner one night. Mike, without skipping a beat, turned to her and said, “Esther always sits on Stephen’s right, and I sit on the left — I have to help him eat.” It wasn’t said to impress her. It was simply how things were. Because that’s who Mike is — and that’s the kind of friendship they had.

Now, Mike is honoring Stephen’s memory in a beautiful way. He’s running the marathon in Aruba — not just as a personal challenge, but as a tribute to his best friend. The proceeds from this run will go toward the MS Ability Alliance, a charity dedicated to supporting individuals living with Multiple Sclerosis.

If you’re able to donate or even just share the link, it would mean the world. Help us carry forward Stephen’s spirit, and support those who are navigating life with MS — just like he did, with strength, humor, and the love of incredible friends.