On Christmas of 2015, my dad was diagnosed with Glioblastoma Multiforme (GBM), the most aggressive and deadliest form of malignant brain tumor in adults. When we received this news, the fluorescent lights above us in the hospital quit its persistent flickering as the doctor’s mouth continued moving in a language I no longer understood. It was almost as if time itself stood still, just for a moment. But it didn’t, it was actually ticking down, with 13 months left for my dad to live.
My family has always been three, my mom my dad and me. We were three points holding each other up: equilateral and unbreakable, the way engineers trust triangles to bear what no other shape can. That was the mathematics of the three of us, the geometry of our tiny, but mighty loving family. Watching the effects of brain surgery, radiation, and chemotherapy take their tolls on my dad broke my heart over and over again. But his positivity and refusal of defeat ignited something in me that I never knew existed and completely altered the course of my life. And my mom and I continued to be the two-thirds of the triangle that supported him through his recovery.
Earlier this month, we celebrated his clear MRI scans, 10 years and 4 months after his original diagnosis.
This journey continues to be the most heartbreaking, human, and beautiful adventure for my family, which is why I am running the Brooklyn Half Marathon on April 26th with a charity that supports a cause that holds dear to my heart:
The American Brain Tumor Association
As a new runner and this being my first race, I hope to take inspiration from my dad’s perseverance through such an unknown and unforgiving odyssey, which we truly couldn’t have navigated without the extraordinary efforts of the team of doctors (superheroes) and research that went into every minute decision that was made over the course of a decade. I hope to bring awareness to a wonderful organization that supports the continuation of Brain Tumor research so other families can have a hopeful and similar outcome like ours.
Love you papa.
Niu Niu xx