Soldier and family in great need

My name is Eulalio Mestre a SSG in the army of over 10 years I returned home to my house in va beach from fort Lewis wa where I deployed to Afghanistan. The next day after placing items in my house I had my house broken into and destroyed and personal items taken than can't be replaced. I have a police Report. My insurance company came to check this out and gave me no hope of repairs, they told me it would cost between $30K - $40K wow... To top it my wife and kids are on the way from Seattle and we have no house to move into. I just don't know what to do and need a bit of Virginia Love.... Thank you all!!!