We love you Vanessa you will forever be missed
On behalf of the Bobo Familly we wish to extend our gratitude and appreciations to those who have been calling and reaching out to the family during this period of grief. The loss of my Older sister Vanessa, there arent words to describe what we are going through and we appreciate all who can help. We are currently in need of funds to make sure her boys are taken care of. If any of you who know her please feel free to continue reaching out to the family Via phone but please allow our Parents Greive, at this current moment we are not excepting visitors until further notice. For those who can dontate in conjuction with this gofundme page please do so with whatever is on your heart. This fund is for her two sons for Bruce and Brady .
Again on behalf of the Bobo family we extend our gratitude to all who can help and who are have been reaching out to the family in our time of need.
Hi. Just wanted to reach out to the family and offer my condolences first and foremost. I also want to give you some information about services that the family/children may qualify for through San Diego DA Victim assistant program. 619 531-4041. The state can help pay for things such as medical/dental, mental health, wage/loss support, funeral expenses and etc.
Vanessa, Ness, Nessa, Bobo… You were the first girl crush I had ahaha. I was the puny ninth grader in the locker room reluctantly going to P.E. and you were the tall, quiet track star with long flat-ironed hair who was getting ready for practice. I didn’t really hang out with you in high school, mostly knew you from hanging out with my cousin Tierra and your sisters Beverly and Brandi. We would hang out at your house after school. Flash forward to like 12-years later and my girlfriend is randomly talking about a Vanessa at work –no clue it was you until one day she said Bobo. There is no other Vanessa Bobo ha. One year later, 2015 I’m working at Dexcom with you –except you’re on maternity leave. Every day I walked by your desk and every day it stood out, with all of the colorful pictures and your animal hat-scarf thingy. Eventually you gave birth and you came back to Dexcom. You, my high school friend, coworker and (as you’d say) Kymmie and I’s “work wife.” We were always cracking jokes on one another, about others (Q-tip ahaha) and we were always at each other’s desk. Constantly putting people on hold so we can hold our own conversations. I’m so glad I passed up another night out in Hillcrest, so we can hang out the other month. We talked about so much that we ended up parked outside of my apartment for like an hour! I’m SO sorry I never saved any of our Snapchat pics of us, I regret it SO MUCH. Furthermore, I’m SO sorry I didn’t get to respond to you when you messaged my Monday/Tuesday right before your death. It is my HUGEST regret. I go back into my Snapchat account and just stare at your unopened snap, like it’s the last bit of you that I can hold onto… It is insane to me that the same day you started texting me, I started having dreams of domestic violence. These dreams consisted of my former abusive relationship and the other two were me witnessing and trying to help others. I woke up Kymmie to vent to her about my dreams. At 5 a.m. on Wednesday I woke up with a panic attack, only to find out an hour later that you’re gone. In denial, because we just talked, I messaged you- c’mon who is spreading these rumors? Right. A true premonition and it frustrates me that despite the signs, none of them pointed me to you. I wish I would’ve dug a little deeper, I wish you would’ve told me. I’ve been there. I’ve been there.
Follow up to Bri Ens... sometimes the states run out of victim assistance funds toward the end of the year and they can be applied for again at the beginning of the following year. #VAWA
So sorry to hear about Vanessa. I remember her as well as her sisters Brandi and Beverly from teaching at Nye Elementary. May God bless your family. Love and prayers, Carol Galley Aka Nyles the Nye Eagle.
So sorry may she rip and watch Over her lil babies and justice prevail for all of her family
I don't have any money to give But I will surly Pray for Everyone God Bless!