Brain Injury costs - 190k so far

It is sad that things have got to this point, but things have piled up to the point that I can't handle it.  It started with my wife being diagnosed with Gastric Lymphoma which has prevented her from working for the last 2+ years.  To this point she has not been approved for disability so our second income has been missing during this time.  A few weeks ago I was diagnosed with Melanoma, which was located on my nose.  The doctor also found Carcinoma which I had to have two procedures to remove.  As for the Melanoma, I have had to have disfiguring surgeries to remove it and thankfully it had not spread and the doctors got it all.  Now I am facing reconstructive surgeries to try to put my face back together.  

All of this has added up to a mountain of medical bills that I cannot handle on my income alone, not with supporting a family and household.  I will say now that I will appreciate more than words can say any help and support I receive.