Surviving Life Without Connie

$31,193 of $50k goal

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Kim Dutoit  PLANO, TX
We were together for twenty years; twenty years where we were seldom more than ten feet apart from each other. For twenty years we worked in the same office, sat on the same couch, slept in the same bed, and in the end, when Connie was dying of Stage 4 cancer, I slept on the couch next to her recliner where she was confined  -- and when Connie finally died, my face was six inches from hers as I whispered my love for her.

Now my beloved Connie is gone, and I have to restart my life. This means clearing the debt, leaving the house where we lived together, and learning how to live without the woman who made my life possible. I'm a writer, and I have to write again, because it's all I know. So I'll be finishing those long-neglected novels, and yes -- I will start blogging again. I just need the funds to make that possible.

Please help me.
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Update 5
Posted by Kim Dutoit
1 month ago
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Nearly halfway there! Please spread the word among friends and family, and help me reach my goal...

And many, MANY thanks to those who've given already.

Remember to visit kimdutoit.com to see the new blog.
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Update 4
Posted by Kim Dutoit
1 month ago
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The new blog is almost complete, needs just a few more features added, and we'll be good to go.

Launch date: Monday Feb 20, 6:00am

Once again, thanks to all for your amazing generosity. Please remember to spread the word about this appeal, and the new blog.
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Update 3
Posted by Kim Dutoit
1 month ago
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Day 3: Once again, thank you all for your incredible generosity.

Was able to start work on the new blog yesterday, thanks to a new Tech Support, who took the job despite knowing what happened to the last one. :=(

The "latest" blog at kimdutoit.com should be up and running early next week.

Once again, thanks to all.

Kim
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Update 2
Posted by Kim Dutoit
1 month ago
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Day 2: Hmmm... not having a FB, Twit or any other such "social media" presence may be hurting me in terms of broadcasting to potential new donors.

Don't care.

The people who know me from before are more important to me than total strangers, so if any of my erstwhile Loyal Readers cares to spread the word to other LRs, please do so.
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Matthew Lutynski
24 days ago

Kim, I'm so sorry to hear that your lovely bride is no longer by your side. I can't imagine your pain that you have gone through. I've always admired your writing (I still have the 2 signed books you sent to me) and if possible I would like to commission you to document my family history just as you once offered when you were running your "othersideofkim" blog.

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Tony Appel
1 month ago

So sorry for you loss Kim. How i have missed your wonderful screeds. I know it will be healing for you as well as us Loyal Readers. Giving what I can. Prayers.

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Michael Becker
1 month ago

Kim, please provide a link to your new blog. Thank you.

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Mark Shaw
1 month ago

Oh no! So very sorry to read of this. I enjoyed the time I spent with you and Connie, both online and at your home.

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Kiril Kundurazieff
1 month ago

Dear Kim, I remember your blogging and while I am unable to contribute to the cause I wish to send my condolences for your loss. For what it's worth my 3 Opinionated Pussycats send along many purrs and purrayers as well.

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William B'Livion
1 month ago

I can't even imagine. You have my deepest condolences.

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Pam Uphoff
1 month ago

I'm so sorry. It's so hard to do all the necessary work, the clearing, the moving . . . don't get so locked into the job that you give away things attached to treasured memories, don't keep so much that you have to do this all over again. Take your time getting back to writing. It's too easy to infuse darkness into your work, at the same time it's hard to care enough to edit and polish as you should.

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Larry Anderson
1 month ago

Oh, Kim, I am so sorry to hear this. Sad that I never got to meet this wonderful woman. Hope this meagre donation can help.

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$31,193 of $50k goal

Raised by 502 people in 1 month
Created February 13, 2017
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James Seigler
11 hours ago

I would have done so sooner, but did so as soon as I could. My glass raised, to her memory, and to your future. Cheers, friend.

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Mark Shaw
13 hours ago

Best....

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Matthew Lutynski
24 days ago

Kim, I'm so sorry to hear that your lovely bride is no longer by your side. I can't imagine your pain that you have gone through. I've always admired your writing (I still have the 2 signed books you sent to me) and if possible I would like to commission you to document my family history just as you once offered when you were running your "othersideofkim" blog.

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Tony Appel
1 month ago

So sorry for you loss Kim. How i have missed your wonderful screeds. I know it will be healing for you as well as us Loyal Readers. Giving what I can. Prayers.

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Michael Becker
1 month ago

Kim, please provide a link to your new blog. Thank you.

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Mark Shaw
1 month ago

Oh no! So very sorry to read of this. I enjoyed the time I spent with you and Connie, both online and at your home.

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Kiril Kundurazieff
1 month ago

Dear Kim, I remember your blogging and while I am unable to contribute to the cause I wish to send my condolences for your loss. For what it's worth my 3 Opinionated Pussycats send along many purrs and purrayers as well.

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William B'Livion
1 month ago

I can't even imagine. You have my deepest condolences.

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Pam Uphoff
1 month ago

I'm so sorry. It's so hard to do all the necessary work, the clearing, the moving . . . don't get so locked into the job that you give away things attached to treasured memories, don't keep so much that you have to do this all over again. Take your time getting back to writing. It's too easy to infuse darkness into your work, at the same time it's hard to care enough to edit and polish as you should.

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Larry Anderson
1 month ago

Oh, Kim, I am so sorry to hear this. Sad that I never got to meet this wonderful woman. Hope this meagre donation can help.

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