Surrounded by Love

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Raised by 92 people in 34 months

On May 22, 2013 my son, Dylan, died. He would have turned eleven a few days later. When Dylan was five, he had surgery to remove a malignant brain tumor, a medulloblastoma. A year later, the cancer recurred. Dylan spent most of his life fighting hard for his life. My husband, my older son and I did everything we could to love, cherish and support Dylan through his battle against a cruel cancer. We did it together as a family and with the support of a large community of people around us.

We were continuously humbled by the friends and strangers who helped take care of us by bringing food, spending time with us, cleaning and doing laundry, praying, running errands, and even donating the blood and platelets from their own bodies.  Two of the most meaningful gifts that we received were from our church quilting group – a quilt for Dylan and one for his older brother, Chandler.

I’d always had a special connection to quilts. My wonderfully quirky, skilled seamstress grandmother, whose quilting group was central to her life introduced me to them early.  She dragged me along to her group whenever I was visiting Albuquerque from Nashville. All her kids and grandkids got quilts when they got married.  She created each one by hand; no machines - just needle, thread and thimble. After my grandfather’s death, my grandmother made me a different kind of quilt, this one out of my his ties. At the time, I thought that was a little bit strange. Until I lost Dylan. Then I understood.

There is something very special about the clothing of someone you love - especially a child’s clothes. So much so that most parents can’t put it into words.  Dylan wore basically the same size for the past 6 years because he didn’t grow much due to the radiation.  The clothes he had, worn for years, were jam-packed with all kinds of memories for me.  For some reason, I wasn’t attached to his pants, so they were easy to give away…but his shirts.  Those precious T-shirts that he picked out and wore and loved were impossible to get rid of.  I wanted to keep them, but how?  In a box in the attic where the memories would smolder and disappear?  Then I thought of the quilting group. Maybe they would make a quilt out of Dylan’s awesome (his words) T-shirts. But that wasn’t enough. I wanted to be part of the process. I wanted to help transform those shirts, the thousands of hugs they held, into something our family could touch, something that could hold us since Dylan couldn’t anymore. Working together, over the course of a year, we made the beautiful quilt pictured above. It was a powerful gift of love.

Now, I want to give that same gift to other families. I’m organizing a virtual quilting bee. Working with other volunteers, we are going to make 30 t-shirt quilts between now and July 7th for 30 families who have lost a child to brain cancer. It’s an ambitious goal and to pull it off, we need YOUR help. We need to raise money to cover the supplies and shipping costs. That’s all. The time and the love are being donated. Please consider helping us surround a family with love. - Jana David


This is the quilt the Brentwood Presbyterian Church quilting group made from Dylan's t-shirts.


This is the first Surrounded by Love quilt.  I made it for Bella's mom, Shannah.  I have 12 other grieving families waiting 'in line' for their healing gift.

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Jana has been very busy. Here are a few more amazing quilts from the last couple of weeks. Thanks to everyone for the donations that pay for materials and mailing costs. We're getting close to the goal. Please help us spread the word. Thank you!
For Alin, mom of Joel
For Lupe, mom of Katlin
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With love and great memories of Dylan on everyone's mind, Jana marked what would have been his 13th birthday with another finished quilt.
Quilt #9 is for Marlo, mother of Tanner
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This is Quilt #4

Jana has been busy cutting, ironing and sewing. Today, she finished her fourth quilt. This one is for Ellen, mom of Joey.

Thanks to everyone for helping surround these families with love.
For Ellen, mom of Joey
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Thank you for supporting Surrounded by Love. Great news, Jana just finished Quilt #3. This one was for Frankie, mom of Robert.

We're a little over halfway to our fundraising goal. If you like, it'd be awesome if you could share the campaign with your friends. Thanks!
Quilt for Frankie, mom of Robert
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Jenn Douglas
34 months ago

I am so moved by what you wrote. The ties and then the transformation that your child made in your life.

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Raised by 92 people in 34 months
Created April 9, 2015
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Audrey Freudberg
5 months ago

Such a beautiful way to honor Dylan's memory, Jana. I am sure you are helping and inspiring many many families. And the quilt I saw on KTLA today - amazing!

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Andrew Logan
5 months ago

Thank you for doing this amazing work!

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Marisa Alimento
5 months ago

What a beautiful gift for a family!

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Penny Doud
5 months ago

What a gorgeous way to let these families know that someone else knows and cares and embraces their journey with love

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5 months ago
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Kimberly Smith
33 months ago

Jana, You're doing G-d's work. Bless you.

Jenn Douglas
34 months ago

I am so moved by what you wrote. The ties and then the transformation that your child made in your life.

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