Help Donna Fight Cancer and Move

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i am restarting this campaign because i need to relocate out of state again in order to live on my own and it is going to be very expensive since i had to do this a year and half ago. some of you have probably been following my story and know that i am not in a safe or healthy situation still. i have asked my family for help and i have been given tough love in return.

i hate being in a position where i have to ask for help at all but i have posted links to a few articles re. the fact that women and the disabled and poor often have to stay in abusive relationships due to housing being so expensive and hard to find. i have been told many times i have to stay for medical insurance and opportunities, help, family, money etc. i did stay for a very long time and now i can’t. i am going public with this so maybe some other women in similar situations will have the courage to do so as well. (links describing what i’ve been through):

https://rewire.news/article/2012/10/08/domestic-violence-awareness-month-shrinking-pool-affordable-housing-impacts-domes/,
http://nnedv.org/resources/ejresources/about-financial-abuse.html 
http://www.eldercarelink.com/Other-Resources/Caregiving-Support/danger-at-home-when-caregiver-stress-leads-to-abuse.htm
http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/is-sex-addiction-just-spousal-abuse-in-disguise/
http://flyingmonkeysdenied.com/2015/12/20/trauma-bonding-brainwashing-techniques-include-good-bad-treatment/
http://flyingmonkeysdenied.com/
https://letmereach.com/2014/08/10/the-narcissist-the-ex-and-the-new-girlfriend-the-art-of-triangulation/
https://www.psychopathfree.com/articles/3-characters-in-the-psychopaths-love-triangle.256/

i will be losing my health insurance when i move to oregon (or even to another county in california) for the 2nd time since i had cancer. i am losing the opportunity to go to the stanford chronic fatigue syndrome clinic for free (medi-cal.) but i can’t think about that too much. i am moving where i can hopefully afford the rent but there is also a housing shortage there. other areas i can afford have doctor shortages, really severe ones like a year wait for a dentist and 6 months for a doctor. no place i am looking at has the kind of climate i am used to which actually works for my illnesses instead of making them worse. i am on all kinds of waiting lists to come back to california but that is not pleasant to think about when i am moving for the 6th time in 7 years.

i didn’t come anywhere near my goal with this campaign and i had to have surgery and move and then money wasn’t such an issue temporarily. now i actually have to live on $1340 paying rent and bills and i will mention the other expenses i am facing. renting a trailer to move, gas, non-toxic motels, people to help me move. when i get there i will have to stay in a non-toxic motel or sublet due to chemical sensitivity until i find housing. then deposit, first and last month’s rent on a new place, all the other expenses involved in setting up a new place. since i won’t  have insurance i will have to pay out of pocket to see a doctor and then pay for prescriptions as well until i get insurance.

i am sure all who have followed this for the past 2-3 years can appreciate how exhausting and trying this has been. please pitch in even $5-10 if it is possible so i can get on my own two feet and live with some dignity and peace. the fear of being wiped out of my small savings in order to be safe is very stressful and if that could be offset a bit i can hopefully get through this. thank you for your support and love. it means everything to me.

if you would prefer to buy some of my art or use paypal you can e-mail me.

old campaign:

I find myself suddenly fighting aggressive breast cancer, one that likes to attack both breasts and return. Because of chronic fatigue syndrome and multiple chemical sensitivity and a host of related disorders I am not fond of western medicine and what is basically poison for a cure. I am grappling with that and plan to do surgery but am not sure about the rest of it, it depends on whether it has spread. I finally have an income after 2 and half years but it is only $1300 mo. which has forced me to live in an evironmentally safe trailer which is quite a different lifestyle to which I am accustomed.

At the moment I only have online support and a relationship that is disintegrating and causing me a lot of emotional pain. I have a tiny nest egg with which to move to California if I recover to be closer to my family. I went through a bout last month where all these stressors made me feel like life was not worth living and i landed in the hospital. I have a lot of virtual support but it only goes so far. People tell me that i am brave and courageous and strong. I don't know why. Besides the death of my son 9 years ago, I have never felt so alone and scared and uncertain of my ability to survive.

Any support is appreciated, I just spent $560 staying in a non toxic hotel and returned to a housesit situation that was too toxic for me to do. I am in an empty foreclosed house and will have to move into a not ready trailer. (bucket as toilet) I don't hold up too well with roughing it and certainly hope it is easier after surgery. I'm feeling a bit stronger and more hopeful but still very vulnerable. I am overwhelmed with the support of many many people on facebook and those who have already donated privately. So far medicaid has made the health care possible. I am grateful for that as well.

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the place is cleaned and the floor hall is going to be replaced. tomorrow i get ready to move out of my last airbnb rental and thursday i move in. there's a bed in there that is not mine. that is all that's in there!

i can't move my stuff in until i paint the floors and have the floor replaced. maybe i'll buy a chair and table. it's starting to seem like maybe this isn't a total disaster. i sign paper on friday. the sun came out. on friday i can finally get my mail.
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the verdict from the mobile home park owner who i met for the first time today was that i have to replace some of the floor. it's not even floor. it's all shredded subfloor. there is black mold in one of the bedrooms that i thought was cat pee but it was from an overflowing toilet.

i had the place cleaned today. they are coming back tomorrow. i bought paint but the store didn't have enough so they have to order it and i have to put a top coat on it. i am going to try to do that myself. so i won't be able to move my stuff in for weeks.

everything is happening at once with signing papers and running out of prescriptions and i am unexpectedly hormonal and will be in debt for the rest of my life so if you can spare a few as a housewarming gift it really really helps.

i lost the mailbox key and my atm card and new checks are held hostage in my mailbox till friday. tomorrow i will give away my last check from taos. how many addresses ago was that.
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i am moving again today and when all is said and done i will be $20k in debt, worse than when i was married. a few chronically ill women have told me they would rather be abused than poor. i just couldn't go there this time. i should not be so honest about what is happening to me in this campaign. all i can do is tell my story. i'm too raw and tired to make things up. i'm too busy now. please donate if you can/ and or share. i love you.
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i now have to absolutely beg for help. due to rental scams and having to leave toxic airbnb's early and canceled plans due to pesticide programs i am absolutely broke and charging everything, including the house partially. i will not be able to repay the debt and also pay rent and bills and food etc.

i feel like i've made a horrible mistake as i'm not even moving into a normal place. i have no idea if i can make it livable and need money for paint and sealers and cleaning companies and moving help and all the products to try to get the cat pee smell out. it burns my nose and eyes.

i really want to work but i have tons of stuff to do for the house before i can get to that and while i'm very ambitious on my good days on my bad days i can hardly function and i am afraid this amount of stress makes for bad days. i my state of mind is partially poisoning from going to kmart last night.

i move to another airbnb place in a couple of days. it takes all day and then 2 or 3 days to recover. it should be the last one. PLEASE HELP!! i'm scared.
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Linda BloomBecker
36 months ago

looking forward to more positive directions you are going in now...xoxo

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Kimberly Stronczek
36 months ago

May some easier patches be up ahead. Hugs

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Donna Kuhn
37 months ago

i'm having trouble figuring out how to reply to your comment so i hope this replies to you. i have applied for low income housing all over the place. i am going to message you privately, which i've been meaning to do. in my post i say people do not believe me that i am not eligible for disability. i am living on that amount of money for the first time, however. i am not eligible for the type of disability which is based on work history because i had 2 kids, was sick, worked part time and it took a decade to diagnose me. my pension makes me too wealthy for the other type of disability, ssi, which they have lowered from 800 month to 700 month. if you have a car, money in the bank over $2k or make more than $700 mo. you do not qualify. i have called ss and talked to lawyers because people insist i qualify. i just don't. i fall between the cracks.

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Janice Boardman
37 months ago

Have you applied for disability, low income housing?

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Kimberly Stronczek
36 months ago (Offline Donation)

thank you so much, kimberly

TS
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Tania Simon
36 months ago
$50
Linda BloomBecker
36 months ago

i am constantly praying for your situation to settle down and stay that way, and for your health to stabilize and get better than ever...xoxo, never give up

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$100
Sheila Parks
36 months ago

Holding you in my prayers, my heart THE LIGHT. Sending all blessings. And knowing there is no disease, only health

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Gary Boylan
36 months ago
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36 months ago
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tom hibbard
36 months ago (Offline Donation)

i am touched and i am grateful. thank you ever so much.

MR
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mary rives
36 months ago (Offline Donation)

thank you, mary. you've been there for me for years now and i admire your courage dealing with health and losses we have in common. you shine.

EP
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Edward Picot
37 months ago

This is a small price for the pleasure your videos have given me over the years.

RG
$300
Robert Gawron
37 months ago

I know u need a lot of money to make a difference. So here is some toward alot.

Linda BloomBecker
36 months ago

looking forward to more positive directions you are going in now...xoxo

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Kimberly Stronczek
36 months ago

May some easier patches be up ahead. Hugs

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Donna Kuhn
37 months ago

i'm having trouble figuring out how to reply to your comment so i hope this replies to you. i have applied for low income housing all over the place. i am going to message you privately, which i've been meaning to do. in my post i say people do not believe me that i am not eligible for disability. i am living on that amount of money for the first time, however. i am not eligible for the type of disability which is based on work history because i had 2 kids, was sick, worked part time and it took a decade to diagnose me. my pension makes me too wealthy for the other type of disability, ssi, which they have lowered from 800 month to 700 month. if you have a car, money in the bank over $2k or make more than $700 mo. you do not qualify. i have called ss and talked to lawyers because people insist i qualify. i just don't. i fall between the cracks.

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Janice Boardman
37 months ago

Have you applied for disability, low income housing?

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