Mom's nursing home & other expenses

$182 of $50,000 goal

Raised by 6 people in 15 months
In Feb. 2015, in the middle of the night, I discovered Mom had fallen in her bedroom. After spending close to two weeks in the hospital, she was discharged to a nursing home, where she has remained for the past three years.

After draining our bank accounts to almost nothing, we are still in debt to them and still have to turn over her monthly "income." I've explained I can't let our bank accounts go negative because that will open up a whole other set of problems and I pay what I can, when I can. But I still need money to pay other bills.

For her to receive assistance, bank accounts have a maximum limit set by the state, which doesn't allow me to hold anything back.

No other family or friends are willing or able to help. I've been the only one taking care of Mom for the past three years. My sister & her family have abandoned us. They don't call or visit and have lied on multiple occasions to both of us. In short, we're not on speaking terms. No one besides me visits and calls from other family & friends are few & far-between.

I'm struggling to keep up with taking care of Mom but I am falling apart and so is our house/property which are in need of repair & major cleaning.

Any help is greatly appreciated. Donations will be used to pay off the debt to the nursing home, followed by other bills I need to get caught up on, and then house cleaning/repair.

$10,000 - $15,000 estimated needed by end of April 2018.

Thanks for your consideration.
*photo used is from Google search...not allowed to use camera/phone inside nursing home due to privacy reasons*
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Spoke with lawyer this afternoon. He received a letter from the state that they may claim over $57,000 to recover from medical expenses that I wasn't aware they could claim. Still owe almost $15,000 to nursing home. Not to mention lawyer and other bills. I have no idea how I'm going to get out from under this. Need a lot of money quickly.
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Mom passed away on 11/21/18, the day before Thanksgiving. I truly feel alone in the world. Still have to pay off the nursing home debt, still need to clean & repair the house & property, and now there's additional paperwork & bills/taxes to deal with. And no money left to handle anything. Any donations are appreciated as is help finding those who can make large donations so I can get myself back on my feet. Thank you.
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This is the current bill through Nov. 2018 (they bill a month in advance).
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current total owed
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$182 of $50,000 goal

Raised by 6 people in 15 months
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