Support for Madison and Matthew
We are Lee Fleishman and Wendy McFadden. Wendy was Wesley's sister. As their Aunt and Uncle, we were the ones that Wesley wanted to care for her children in such a tragic event. We are more than willing to take them in and will do everything in our power to provide them with a life that Wesley would approve of. The Crime Victim Center of Chester County is helping us with counseling for the children which we have already taken advantage of.
Wendy and I both have stable jobs with decent pay, but we are wholly unprepared for such an event. We need some funds for both immediate needs of the children as well as wanting to start a college fund. We have some savings set aside for our younger son, but were not expecting or prepared to have teenagers so suddenly.
We need to purchase things like additional beds, furniture, clothing, tuition to continue Madison's dance classes, uniforms and equipment for sports, etc.
We are fighting for custody of the children to keep them safe, so legal fees may also be a factor at some point. We intend to pay for this as much as possible and keep the funds being donated for the children's well-being.
We have been asked by many people how they can help the children and the family. It is truly heartwarming to see the outpouring of support from the communities that Wesley and the children belonged to. Every dontation will help and is immensely appreciated.
This Thanksgiving is probably one of the most meaningful, though. I realized that I have neither given an update in a long time nor thanked all of our supporters/donators personally.
So, in the past few months we've gained full custody of Madison and Matthew. They seem to be doing fairly well, considering what they've been through. We're still getting used to our new hectic schedule but i think we're pulling it together fairly well.
We've started the process of looking for a larger home so the boys can have their own rooms. With the age difference being so great, it is less than ideal. Matthew wants his own space and Lucas doesn't really want to give it to him. Lucas also keeps hiding all of his stuff (which is actually sort of funny). We're still looking in the same area so that they don't have to change school districts.
I guess that as things are winding down this Thanksgiving, I'm reflecting on what the holiday truly means. Adopting our son, then taking in the kids, it hasn't been the easiest way for us to create a family and it would not have been the path I would have chosen; However, I am very thankful for any things. I am thankful that we were able to adopt as many people may not be able to afford it. I am thankful that we were able to take in the kids and offer as much support as we can. I am thankful that our marriage has been strong enough to survive what has certainly been a bumpy road. And I am forever thankful for the support that we have received throughout our endeavors.
To everyone who supported us through the GoFundMe page, to personal friends and family, to coworkers, and everyone else who has touched our lives and given to us and to so many others ...
THANK YOU AND HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!
With such a life changing event as this that could easily go negative, it's such a great feeling to be reminded of how many really good people are out there.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for everything!
I've known Wesley for about 6 years. I recently helped her with renting the Barn at Providence Forge for Madison's birthday party. Wesley was such a nice girl and a very, very close friend of my daughter Leslie Simon, and my son, Brian Flammer. They are both devastated by the loss of their friend. We all will miss her so much. But no one will miss her more than Maddison and Matthew. And on that note, we really want you to call upon us for any help necessary or wanted. I know that you will be taking on quite a lot of extra work, so I am offering my services when you need a weekend off and a Granny to stay with them. Send me a message through Facebook. Blessed Be
Im deeply saddened that Wesley lost her life and her children lost their mother. I went to school with her and haven't seen her since. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. I hope you are in touch with victims compensation for Pa. There is funding. And the children are entitled to receive it due to the loss of their beautiful mother. I hope you are able to find all the resources that are available to them . May God bless you all.
Lee, ia so sorry to her of your tragic loss. I hope you can accept my condolences and I wish you and your family peace and healing. Your FZ8 friend. Dennis
I survived DV. My husband shot at me , cut me . Chock me out on so many occasions and beat me all while our boys watch. 17 years later and I am still healing from his abuse. I am an advocate for DV and for those that go missing in US. You would not believe the woman that are missing due to DV. This story touch my heart and brought back memories. God bless this family and these children.
So much love to all grieving the loss of Ms. Webb. My prayers go out to all her loved ones, most especially her children. May they be strong and get all the support they need to recover (the best anyone can).
These poor children. My thoughts and prayers are with them. No child should lose their mother to senseless violence, yet it continues to happen. I am so sorry.
I remember Wesley from the neighborhood and my son is in Matthew's class. My heartfelt condolences go out to your family. Please message me for ANYTHING you might need. I'll be happy to have the kids over to play anytime.
Could you please pass on to Madison & Matthew that their old neighbor Emily said hi... and I'm thinking about them. A lot. They dogs say hi too!
If anyone would be granted custody of these kids, Wendy has my vote....10 fold. Good luck, because their biological father is garbage!