Building Hope for Kristina
After trying to save her newborn son Lucas' life, 25-year-old mother Kristina suffered a brain stem stroke in October of 2015. Days later, Kristina’s condition worsened and she was diagnosed with Locked in Syndrome, a stroke complication that leaves her 100% aware and alert but she is unable to move, eat or speak.
While Lucas' diagnosis has stabilized due to aggressive medical intervention, Kristina is struggling with the prognosis of needing 24/7 care for the rest of her life. Their combined medical bills exceed $8,000 per month. Kristin'a family, as her sole providers- are expanding their home in order to better care for Kristina and Lucas. Your contribution helps this Sarasota, FL family who is facing a lifetime of medical
Just days after giving birth, 25-year-old new mom Kristina Brightbill and her husband Jedidiah knew that something was wrong with their newborn, Lucas. Lucas was inconsolable, colicky, had blood tinged stool, was covered in sores, and became chronically ill. Although multiple doctors reassured Kristina and her husband that everything was fine, the new mom knew in her heart that something was very wrong. She persevered and fought for her son, seeking expert opinions from all over the country until Lucas was finally diagnosed with Mast Cell Activation Disorder, a disease that renders him allergic to practically everything- including water. Determined to provide a quality life for Lucas in spite of his diagnosis, Kristina, Jedidiah & Lucas flew to California to pursue the top Mast Cell specialist in the US.
By this point, Lucas was being sustained by his mother's breast milk- where Kristina was on an 8 month diet of solely quinoa, the ONLY food that Lucas could tolerate. As a determined mom, Kristina lived on quinoa and nothing else. She was exhausted, malnourished, and battling her own newly-activated Mast Cell Activation Disorder coupled with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, a connective tissue disease.
Kristina and her mom, Linda, were packing up to come home after a three month long trip to California when the unimaginable happened. Kristina's body succumbed to the pressure and exhaustion, and she suffered a massive brain stem stroke in October of 2015. The brainstem is responsible for all communication in the body. The brain stem tells the lungs to breath, the heart to beat, the arm to raise and the foot to move. Due to poor medical intervention, Kristina's stroke was not diagnosed properly for 3 days and by the time it was diagnosed, the long term damage had already been done. Kristina was then diagnosed with Locked-In- Syndrome, an extremely rare secondary disorder to the stroke that renders the patient aware and alert but unable to move, talk or eat. To date, only two people in the world have been known to come out of "locked in". Kristina is unable to speak, swallow, move, hold or play with her son. It has been an emotionally debilitating journey, but through it all- she has not given up.
That was 16 months ago. Today, Kristina, a physical therapist herself, has been able to prove many doctors wrong. In spite of their grim prognosis, she breathes on her own and is making slow progress in her physical therapy every single day. Communication is attained by spelling the alphabet with eye blinks, where she is able to turn letters into words and sentences. It is a tedious process, but allows Kristina to have a voice. Kristina's medical care is extensive as our primary goal is to prevent life threatening infections that plague her already compromised body.
While Kristina's health demands 24/7 care, we are so thankful that Lucas' diagnosis has stabilized due to aggressive medical intervention. Lucas is a spunky 2 1/2 year old whose life is sustained by a strict diet of lamb, red potatoes, 'sacha inchi' oil and small amounts of broccoli and banana. Those are the only foods he can tolerate at this time without going into a full allergic reaction and possibly anaphylaxis. Lucas will likely never be able to attend a public school due to his diagnosis and even the time he spends outside is limited due to environmental factors.
Kristina and Lucas are blessed to have family who helps provide care and support them. Kristina's mom Linda Daly, immediately quit her job and she takes care of both Kristina and Lucas's needs full time and is with them both every single day, 24/7 along with her husband and Kristina's father, Jimmy.
A single day in Kristina’s life includes medications, tracheotomy care, PICC line dressing changes, IV injections, feeding tubes, skin breakdowns and infection control. The real challenge is advocating for Kristina's needs with insurance companies, social security offices, doctor's offices, medical companies, referrals and prescription refills. Something as simple as getting a medical mattress to prevent bed sores can takes months of emails and phone calls to accomplish. The family has learned the art of appealing decisions and spend countless hours walking the line between providing physical care for Kristina and advocating for her needs.
The family is simply exhausted and have come to the mutual agreement that they need to work smarter rather than harder. After many months of debate, Kristina's parents have made the decision to expand their home for the sake of Kristina and Lucas' physical, emotional, and financial care. The Daly's have plans in the works to build an addition onto their home so that Kristina's care can be better managed and so Lucas can spend more quality time with his mom. Having everyone under the same roof will cut down on travel time and make their lives more efficient and manageable.
Building that addition is an extremely costly endeavor, and all past fundraising has been allocated towards Kristina and Lucas’ needs. Today the family is seeking your support. Our fundraising goal is $200,000. This will cover the home rennovations, caregiving costs, better rehabilitation equipment, and other various medical costs. We understand that times are hard for everyone, so if you cannot help financially, please consider what you might possess that could help this family.
Perhaps you are a plumber or own a cabinet company? Maybe you're an electrician, or your brother is a surveyor? Is your neighbor a roofer, or your husband a contractor? Would you like to donate the materials we need? Maybe you have access to purchasing items wholesale? Help spread the word. Share Kristina's story. If we shout from the mountaintops, the valley will hear of Kristina's journey. After all, nobody can do everything, but everybody can do something. Please don't close this page until you have considered any resource that you may be able to contribute to our journey.
Any money that we raise above our goal will go directly to Kristina and Lucas’ ongoing medical care and for therapeutic resources to aid in Kristina's recovery. In spite of all the challenges this family has faced over the past 2.5 years, the Brightbill & Daly families are humbled by the outpouring of love and support.
Kristina would like to personally thank you all for your prayers, cards, emails, posts, phone calls and visits. Your support is the fuel that keeps the fire burning for Kristina's fight and seeing her son Lucas grow up is what fans those flames. Words simply fall short to express her gratitude. Thank you all and God Bless.
The first word that comes to mind for me... is relief. Relief that FINALLY, my family is getting the help that they so desperately need. Relief that my sister has been lifted in prayers and words of encouragement more so than ever before. Relief that our prayers and dire needs are being answered. Relief that the world finally knows how much my parents Jim and Linda, sister Kristina, nephew Lucas, and entire family have been suffering over the last year and a half. Our parent's are so dedicated and strong, and their willpower to provide love, support, and medical care no matter what the circumstances- has been so moving. I am so relieved that now all of you know our story.
Our family is filled with "JOY". Since @TheJoyFM posted the #JoyStories video on Kristina's journey, the amount of love and support we have received has been indescribable. Messages of encouragement, complete strangers laying their lives down to offer help to us, everything....it's just all been so amazing.
"Thank you for giving me the opportunity to hear from God in such a powerful way.",
"your strength, courage, and faith are inspirational."
"I can't imagine living with this affliction without the things you need. You are a loving and brave family."
"I felt god wanted us to help."
"you and your family are such an inspiration."
The messages that we have received have been so moving. I want you all to know that as a family, we have read every single message, and want to thank you for the boost of encouragement, love, support, and hope that we all so desperately needed. All of you have moved us in so many ways, and we know that this is just the beginning of Kristina's journey.
Whether it was $5, $25, $100, or $2500... every single donation is helping us in more ways than you can imagine. Every offer of volunteer services...every carpenter, nurse, physical therapist, aide, or helping hand that has stepped forward to help our family has been such a relief. There are no words to explain what is on our hearts other than thank you, thank you, thank you.
Thank you Joy FM. Thank you to the countless people who have stepped forward to help us. I hope you continue to follow us on this journey. THIS IS JUST THE BEGINNING. Please continue to pray for Kristina, please continue to share her story with the world. She is so amazing, and truly a miracle, she deserves the world. And all of you are helping us get there.
We still have a long way to go. this is just the beginning. We have taken baby steps in getting this process started, WE STILL NEED HELP! We still need donations, and helping hands, and volunteers. Please consider helping us in any way you can.
As Linda said, "Stay tuned as things unfold."
And if you haven't watched yet, please watch this amazing Joy FM video and share Kristina's story.
In her short 28 years of life- she has changed the world with her strength, faith, fearlessness, and her power.
In honor of Kristina, I'd like to raise at least $2,800 today for her 28th birthday! Please help use send her well wishes, positivity, light and love.
Wish Kristina a happy birthday, donate, and share this link!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY KRISTINA! We love you❤
Register here: http://www.care2tri.org/cause-you-care2tri.html#signup!
Donations start at $25 but you can donate ANY amount, just mention Kristina's name in the comments! (the Daly/Brightbill family is listed as the 'family of the month')
Once you register- run/walk at any time, any place, any day between now and 4/22! Then snap a photo to show your support and use the hashtags #BuildingHopeForKristina & #Care2Tri.
PS- Care2Tri is a tax deductible 501C 3! Care2Tri has graciously offered to accept donations on Kristina's behalf that will go directly towards her fund. SO IF ANYONE KNOWS OF ANY ORGANIZATIONS THAT CAN ONLY DONATE TO 501 c3's please share!
CARE2TRI asks that you please make checks payable to CARE2TRI and put Kristina Brightbill in the memo. For mailing information please contact Katie Daly directly.
So much has happened since the launch of this Gofundme page. Due to care concerns, our original timeline for moving Kristina to her parent's home has changed dramatically. The stress of meeting Kristina's care needs came to a head and immediate action had to be taken. On Sunday, February 19th, Kristina was moved to her parent's home so she can focus on her recovery. This move adds to the mounting challenges the family faces daily.
Just to simply drive Kristina's wheelchair into her bedroom, her mom, Linda, must remove the arm rests, leg rests and physically lift the wheelchair to maneuver around the tight corners of the non-handicapped accessible home. This is a temporary solution for long term challenges. The need for this addition to be built is now critical as Linda must provide 24/7 care for Kristina. It hasn't even been a week, and it is already apparent that this arrangement is challenging.
We understand that not everyone can donate financially, but please consider all the other ways you can help. Dinners, volunteers and caregivers are always appreciated. Business contacts and connections are wonderful. If you know a physical therapist, speech therapist, occupational therapist or caregiver who may want to volunteer, please give them our contact information.
Most importantly, please don't hesitate to share Kristina's story. Post it and repost it again. The family thanks you all from the bottom of their hearts. It's through the support of our community & our relationship with God that we draw strength & hope.
Kristina, you are such an inspiration, you and your family! You have stayed strong in all of this, because our good Lord is with you. May he continue to strengthen you each day. May your son Lucas be strengthened as well. I will be praying for you and your family! ♥
We will continue to pray for all of your family! We are excited to see what GOD has in store for you all! Our BIKERS FOR CHRIST chapter will keep you all in your prayers. Your story is such an inspiration of faith and love and that GOD is always in the midst of our lives. HE is always holding onto us. GOD BLESS you all!