Help my beloved hubbies med. fund

This is my hubby Seydi Ciro. He just had a massive Stroke on Dec. 19ths. The right side of his body is affected. Right leg and arm/hand is patially paralyzed and out of use for now. The most damage caused was to his Speach. He can barely talk anything. Mostly just yes no and i love you. Most of the time he doesnt remember my name or the name of our Kids. He is still in ICU and will have to stay - so the doctors say - including rehab for about 8 weeks. I myself have a walking disability and since he is in hospital around 50 miles away and i am living in a village with our 4 kids (age 16 15 10 9) i am not able to go and see him. seeing me and the kids doc said would help him loads to recover. He was always a very shy person towards strangers and trys to talk with me on the Phone - when nurses holding it to his ear - more than he ever wants to talk with the doctors. He will need a long time to recover - if ever. docs said it can take a couple years. So what we all need the most is a car - of course a used one - to have a possibility to go there and see him. we also will need some changes in our living like something to lift him in the bath and out. he might need a wheelchair and i dont know for now what else more will come towards us. Him and i were both due to our health prior without a job and lived of social welfare with the kids. they are all in school still and will be a few more years more. we dont have any family that is able to help so i dont know what else i could do other then to shout out and ask for help. it is at the moment a horrible feeling with christmas so close to ask but every little will help. tyvm