Help 2 people be together
really want this so badly so I appreciate all the support all the continued support and it's just being the dad of two children and her trying to take care of herself on her own it's just so difficult for us so at the end of the day I believe love will win. But any financial support is really appreciated thank you
Chris, as someone who was born and raised in a third-world country, not too far from Nigeria, I feel obligated to tell you that this is more than likely a scam. This woman is probably using you as a means to an end - her sole purpose being an American citizenship. I can almost guarantee you that she is talking to multiple men like yourself, perhaps for just as long as she's been talking to you, with the same goal in mind. You're your own man, and you're going to have to make your own decisions and live with the consequences, but if I were in your shoes, I would absolutely not go to Nigeria to meet her. The possibility that this is a scam is scary enough, but you must also keep in mind that Nigeria is a freaking war zone right now. Boko Haram controls vast territories in the northeastern part of the country and there are daily attacks and bombings throughout the whole country of Nigeria, and the neighboring region. An American tourist cruising around the streets of this almost failed state is like screaming "kidnap me, murder me." Based on the conversation you had with Ownage, it doesn't sound like you've been out of the country much. There's no 911 in Africa my friend. You're on your own.
Hey Chris, Ever stop to consider she might want to get with you only for the passport? I don't mean to generalise and all that, but she's Nigerian and a 22 Year old looking to get on with a 45 year old seems a bit odd doesn't it? There's countless cases around this- I know a 50 year old guy who went to Philippines to meet the "love of his life", and in the end she was with him only to get Aussie citizenship. He tried to sue her but nothing worked in his favour. You've got 2 kids that love you a lot, please don't get yourself entangled in a web like this.
Seriously- this has a good chance of being a scam. Please consider this, it could be a possibility. Here's some stories of people who have travelled to Nigeria to meet people from the internet only to get kidnapped/mugged http://www.crimes-of-persuasion.com/Nigerian/nigerian_victims.htm
You have to wonder why can't she find a man in her own country? Does she ask you for money? That is the number one clue she's not in this for the right reason. I'm not trying to be mean, I just hate to see you get scammed but worse, hurt. This happens every single day, out of country people looking for vulnerable people to get them out of their country or to get as much money out of them as they can. Please be smart about this. If there are red flags listen to your gut. Your kids need their dad. Read all the stories about scammers, do your homework before jetting off to a country that isn't even safe to visit. Good luck with whatever you choose. I hope things work out for you
Bro. I I'm on your side. I am all for the love you are looking for. Do consider what these people are saying and once you are sure that it's real, go and get what you are looking for my friend! Love is beautiful. Good thing you have great people like OP to see a great opportunity to help a brother out with a dream like yours. Also know that everybody with their hateful comments is only worried about you. They might not know how to express it in a nice way but they care. Good luck my friend!! WKTIAS
To all the people that are saying that this is a catfish - there's a very simple way to find out if she's real. Video chat. And to make 100% sure she's real, ask her to do something peculiar. For example, touching her nose, putting her hand on her face, touching her ear, just something random that you wouldn't normally ask that way the video can't be faked.
Guys this isn't about whether it's a scam or not. This man is trying to reach a goal here, and he clearly can't afford it. He is determined to find, what nobody knows yet, the love of his life. The most humane thing to do, is support him. Throw some cash in for him if you can afford it, and otherwise just give him some support. You are probably now thinking that she may be a scammer, and that it's not worth it, but who do you think would get hurt the most? Your wallet, or his feelings? That's why supporting him is so important for him, and that whatever the outcome of his event, he needs to know that he tried, and it's okay to be let down, because the world is not that cruel after all. Isn't this what life is about? Be beautiful, and be humane.
Chriss. with all due respect I believe that there are deeper motives. driving this relationship from your female counterpart. Keep a clear, and open mind, a sharp ear. Feelings can cloud judgement . Don't ignore your gut feelings, when and if they hint at "something's wrong with a deed or statement". Best wishes.
hey chris, i really feel sorry for you .. get well soon
Apply twice to Social Services. They always deny the first application.
To the people that think this is a scam... why would the lady talk to this man for 3 years if she was planning on scamming him? Good luck man.
Why this page was gone and now is back?
You're getting scammed, she's 22 and you're 45, it would be a huge mistake going to nigeria, its obvious