Bryan & Fam rent, vehicle maint

My family and I need help. I am a Marine veteran and no matter how much I work I just cant get a head. My ex always drags me to court over stupid things and wanting more money, some how she always wins. Might be the lawyer they can afford that I cant. My beautiful wife had to go from full time to part time due to our daughters medical needs and we are behind on our rent (2 months and due tomorrow) and other bills, not to include the fmaily suburban with a bad drivers side wheel hub that is wearing the tire down un-even and a cracked windshield, a motorcycle which I use to save gas with a bald tire, blown fork seal and leaky front brakes. We dont have any insurance right now because she is at part time and I just started a new job and am not eligible for it for another month, the uncovered medical bills and doctors visits have to come out of pocket and my wifes tooth that needs extracting as of 6 months ago and causes her pain every day that we cant afford. With an ER visit for her heart and urgent care for me when I shattered my finger that the VA wont cover because "I should have gone to the ER myself not urgent care". We applied for care credit and make $100.00 too much, we make too much for food stamps as well. We are in that grey area for OBAMA care and state assistance, so we have no idea what to do. I have to get my 2 kids back to their mother in Vegas in one month and have no idea how we are going to afford doing this and asking my ex to be lenient, yeah right. I have several items listed for sale in hopes that it will help us start to catch up and snag up any over time I can but it isn't working out. My wife is a recent graduate with a medical administrative assistant and certified billing degree and has applied 93 times to ST Lukes (local hospital) with no call back and to many small doctors offices as well. We have contacted them and they says its because she doesn't have any office experience. Its crazy how the world works, your cant get a job with out a degree, and once you have the degree you need experience to get hired that no one will give you the chance to get. I don't know how to avoid an eviction (that is more then likely this week) and I have no idea on what programs are out there that can help. Being a vet the only thing the VA can do for me and my family is after we are homeless (thanks VA, your welcome for getting shot at and and blown up). If any one is interested in any of our items I am more then willing to sell them to you, lol. I/we are at the point of no return and on the down hill to all that is bad for my family. Any info is greatly appreciated. TIA. Semper Fi