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My wife was secretly living a double life for years, finally she left us two years ago, and now my family will lose our home unless we pay her an Indiana court-ordered amount. I asked my children what they wanted to do, and they wanted to try to save our home by holding a fundraiser. If something were to happen to me, my four children would not have a home.
I bought my parents 100yr old house as a fixer-upper & only worth 25K. I put everything I had into the house with 7 years of construction as I gutted and completely restored this property to make it a home for my family. Soon as all the work was done, she filed for divorce. If I were a wealthy man, that wouldn’t matter, but all this family has is the home we worked tirelessly for while my wife would constantly say, “That’s your house; you do it.”
To my surprise, her first set of divorce papers came unannounced with the mail jeep honking for me to come outside and sign. As I walked back into the house to open and see what it was, she said, “I don’t want the house or the kids; you can have all that.” After leaving us to live with a wealthy man she changed her mind, and is now forcing us to sell the house if I cannot pay her half. I tried to get her to work with me on payments or any arrangements, but she won’t compromise or budge. I did not file any motions against my wife whatsoever except to declare that she had left us and that I had the children in my care. I didn’t want or choose to divorce and always tried to facilitate any hope of change. She petitioned our last day in court to request that the judge grant her a divorce since I testified under oath from day one that I would not ever break my marriage vow.
My children didn’t do anything to deserve this and things only continued to get worse for them. They have been lied to profusely and had to endure emotional abuse. I would get phone calls from them crying to come pick them up an hour away where they had to see a new strange man they had never met before, taking a shower, calling their mom “babe” within a week of the last guy, while still married to their Dad. Again, they called for me about a cussing drunk person up in their faces, scaring them and saying: “What are you going to do when you can’t call your Daddy to come for you?” When I arrived to pick them up, my daughter ran outside into my arms balling and shaking, lips quivering, sucking in air, unable to speak or get her words out. The first thing she said to me was, “I was so scared Dad!” Another time Majal was forced to talk on the phone for 2 hours with a complete stranger; some Florida man from the Internet telling her she’s not a good Christian girl when she explained to him how God’s word tells us to live. My wife conjured up and filed a false protective order against me to have me removed by the police from our home and taken away from my children. It was investigated and dismissed as entirely false, but Social Services still had to come to my home with the police twice. My daughter had to testify in the court under oath to state the truth to clear her Dad. All 4 of my children were interviewed under the threat that they would be taken and separated from me. These things were completely senseless and destructive trauma to them emotionally. Regardless there is no part of me that would wish my wife any ill then or ever.
Another obstacle stems from my two 60 mph car accidents in the past with broken vertebrae. I was issued a permanent disability for the left side of my body, but I kept working, never claiming on it. I’m very strong, but it worsened and became unbearable. I had to surgically have a cage put on my spine 9 months ago. I’m doing exercises and physical therapy because some difficulty has arisen with nerve damage of numbness in my arms and legs. I may not be able to perform work for another 3-6 months so I was not able to make a house loan work at my credit union.
As a Father, watching a priceless moment of love that I’ll never forget, was when my 4 children after a day of being threatened and scared. They held each other’s hands then placed them on both the social service worker gal and the police officer, who shed a few tears as my children began to pray out loud for each of their two families before they left our home.
One thing is for sure, my children will never know what it is like to have their father leave them or not love them. I don’t know everything, but I can guarantee these precious lives of Hannah, Majal, Benjamin, and Banner are worth believing & investing in.
No gift amount is too small! Collectively we can be amazingly powerful in numbers!
If 3000 people gave just $20 towards this we could save their home, or If 1000 people gave $60 etc. We really do need your help, prayers, and to please share this post with others to reach our goal ASAP. I’m supposed to have the money together to pay by May 31st or face losing the home. To all of you, even those who don’t know me personally, I want to express my deepest thanks and blessing of love to you and your own family. As you prayerfully consider donating, the easiest way to give is right here through the GoFundMe page. Or if you prefer gift by check, you can mail it to:
The Bowers’ House
4845 N Old Ft Wayne Rd
Huntington, IN 46750
If you prefer VENMO :
Kyle Bowers @Bowers_House_Fundraiser
Hannah, my oldest daughter was the best helper. Constantly by my side swinging hammers with me.
I love you Hannah ❤️
Before the house was done outside or the inside was tore up and remodeled I planted a couple landscape hills. You can see in the picture I took today April 19, 2022 they have grown up around the big rocks. 
I bought my parents 100yr old house as a fixer-upper & only worth 25K. I put everything I had into the house with 7 years of construction as I gutted and completely restored this property to make it a home for my family. Soon as all the work was done, she filed for divorce. If I were a wealthy man, that wouldn’t matter, but all this family has is the home we worked tirelessly for while my wife would constantly say, “That’s your house; you do it.”
To my surprise, her first set of divorce papers came unannounced with the mail jeep honking for me to come outside and sign. As I walked back into the house to open and see what it was, she said, “I don’t want the house or the kids; you can have all that.” After leaving us to live with a wealthy man she changed her mind, and is now forcing us to sell the house if I cannot pay her half. I tried to get her to work with me on payments or any arrangements, but she won’t compromise or budge. I did not file any motions against my wife whatsoever except to declare that she had left us and that I had the children in my care. I didn’t want or choose to divorce and always tried to facilitate any hope of change. She petitioned our last day in court to request that the judge grant her a divorce since I testified under oath from day one that I would not ever break my marriage vow.
My children didn’t do anything to deserve this and things only continued to get worse for them. They have been lied to profusely and had to endure emotional abuse. I would get phone calls from them crying to come pick them up an hour away where they had to see a new strange man they had never met before, taking a shower, calling their mom “babe” within a week of the last guy, while still married to their Dad. Again, they called for me about a cussing drunk person up in their faces, scaring them and saying: “What are you going to do when you can’t call your Daddy to come for you?” When I arrived to pick them up, my daughter ran outside into my arms balling and shaking, lips quivering, sucking in air, unable to speak or get her words out. The first thing she said to me was, “I was so scared Dad!” Another time Majal was forced to talk on the phone for 2 hours with a complete stranger; some Florida man from the Internet telling her she’s not a good Christian girl when she explained to him how God’s word tells us to live. My wife conjured up and filed a false protective order against me to have me removed by the police from our home and taken away from my children. It was investigated and dismissed as entirely false, but Social Services still had to come to my home with the police twice. My daughter had to testify in the court under oath to state the truth to clear her Dad. All 4 of my children were interviewed under the threat that they would be taken and separated from me. These things were completely senseless and destructive trauma to them emotionally. Regardless there is no part of me that would wish my wife any ill then or ever.
Another obstacle stems from my two 60 mph car accidents in the past with broken vertebrae. I was issued a permanent disability for the left side of my body, but I kept working, never claiming on it. I’m very strong, but it worsened and became unbearable. I had to surgically have a cage put on my spine 9 months ago. I’m doing exercises and physical therapy because some difficulty has arisen with nerve damage of numbness in my arms and legs. I may not be able to perform work for another 3-6 months so I was not able to make a house loan work at my credit union.
As a Father, watching a priceless moment of love that I’ll never forget, was when my 4 children after a day of being threatened and scared. They held each other’s hands then placed them on both the social service worker gal and the police officer, who shed a few tears as my children began to pray out loud for each of their two families before they left our home.
One thing is for sure, my children will never know what it is like to have their father leave them or not love them. I don’t know everything, but I can guarantee these precious lives of Hannah, Majal, Benjamin, and Banner are worth believing & investing in.
No gift amount is too small! Collectively we can be amazingly powerful in numbers!
If 3000 people gave just $20 towards this we could save their home, or If 1000 people gave $60 etc. We really do need your help, prayers, and to please share this post with others to reach our goal ASAP. I’m supposed to have the money together to pay by May 31st or face losing the home. To all of you, even those who don’t know me personally, I want to express my deepest thanks and blessing of love to you and your own family. As you prayerfully consider donating, the easiest way to give is right here through the GoFundMe page. Or if you prefer gift by check, you can mail it to:
The Bowers’ House
4845 N Old Ft Wayne Rd
Huntington, IN 46750
If you prefer VENMO :
Kyle Bowers @Bowers_House_Fundraiser
Hannah, my oldest daughter was the best helper. Constantly by my side swinging hammers with me.
I love you Hannah ❤️Before the house was done outside or the inside was tore up and remodeled I planted a couple landscape hills. You can see in the picture I took today April 19, 2022 they have grown up around the big rocks. Organizer
Kyle Bowers
Organizer
Huntington, IN