- j
- O
SEPT 3rd, 1967- APRIL 4th, 2020
I WANT TO SHARE JUST A LITTLE OF MY BROTHER CARLOS LIFE/ 2 U FAMILY*FRIENDS & SUPPORTERS. THIS IS WHO HE WAS & I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIM THIS WAY. HE WAS BORN IN JERSEY CITY SEPT 1967 HE WAS THE BIG BROTHER OF OUR FAMILY #1 OF 5 KIDS. THE LOST OF A BROTHER IS THE MOST PAINFUL FEELING IN LIFE. HE WAS MY PROTECTOR ANYWHERE I WENT. WHO I SPOKE TO & WHAT I DID. HE LOVED TELLING EVERYONE "THAT'S MY SISTER" AND FOR THAT REASON MY HEART IS FULL OF MEMORIES
His life was always the same. His Budweiser & Cigarettes he never left behind. At 28 he became a Father to My Precious Niece Linda Marie Vivas who filled his heart with joy. He didn't worry about anything. He always managed to be Happy. He had the Greatest Sense of Humor.He was a Great True & Loyal Friend to Many. He was very much loved anywhere he went. He worked In Miami Lakes for over 24 years then would go
The Ale House where he later made it his 2nd Home. (As his Sister I am very great full for every individual who loved & shared many nights/ holidays & birthday with My Brother (A.K.A. Charlie)
He had just 1 problem. As you may know, My Brother Carlos and I were diagnosed with Cancer a few days apart in 2016 when he had his Colon Surgery, I later had my surgery to remove the tumor I had on my breast. It's now 2020 & it's back again.
He refused to accept the fact that his Cancer came to hunt him & his loved ones. He decided late February if it was okay to move with me because he wanted me to take care of him. I did everything a Sister can do for a Brother. Day or Night while still working & with the help of Hospice Team 117 @ Home we did all we could. Plus the help of the Family Members who also helped me through this overwhelming disease. He didn't want to loose this battle. I saw his hurt/ I heard him hurt/ I saw when he couldn't walk anymore. He would struggle to do his things with no one's help. The pain was heartbreaking. By the time we finally got his results it was just too late to do anything for him. (CANCER WON OVER ALL PRAYERS)
I KNOW CHARLIE'S WISHES IS TO SEE YOU ALL THERE, I CAN'T PROMISE THAT DUE TO OUR DEADLY COVID-19.
WHAT I DO PROMISE IS IN MEMORY OF MY BELOVED BROTHER CARLOS VIVAS (A.K.A) MR. CHARLIE TO YOU IS WHEN THIS IS ALL OVER WE WILL GATHER & ORGANIZE A VERY WELL DESERVED CELEBRATION OF LIFE @ HIS 2ND HOME THE ALE HOUSE MIAMI LAKES WHERE I WANT TO PUT UP A BUDWEISER SIGN PERSONALIZED WITH HIS NAME SO HE CAN ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED WE CAN THEN SHARE MEMORIES/ LAUGHS & TEARS TOGETHER..
SO I ASK FOR YOUR SUPPORT TO CELEBRATE HIS TRIBUTE FOR HIS STRUGGLE TO CANCER / INCOMING BILLS FOR AN AMOUNT UNKNOWN PLUS SUPPORT FUNDS FOR CANCER TO THE VIVAS FAMILY.
THANK YOU ALL WHO WHERE PART OF MY CHARLIE'S WORLD
MAY GOD GUIDE US ALL ALWAYS & FOREVER...
R.I.P YOUR SISTER XIOMARITA