Support Grandpa's Funeral Expenses

Hey cousins, I know many of us are out of touch with the family, and did not have a close relationship with grandpa. However, our parents are short 4,000 for his funeral expenses. Some of us discussed putting money together to help our parents. We are unsure of everyone's financial situation, and we do not want to force you to participate, but if you can send anything to the family for grandpa, we know our parents will appreciate it. I do not think I have all our cousins on social media so if you see someone missing, please spread the word. Some of us would like to keep this between the family, so if we can try to keep it amongst ourselves, please honor their wishes. If things change I will let you know. Love you all, always, no matter how far away we are.