A Struggling Mom

Hi, my name is Andrea, and I’m a single mom. Writing this is incredibly hard for me—I’ve always been the one to figure things out, to carry the weight, to make it work somehow. I am never one to ask for help. But right now, I’m exhausted, and overwelmed and I need help.

I work hard to give my children the life they deserve. But between the rising cost of everything, a rent increase, and life constantly throwing curveballs, I’ve found myself falling behind. I’ve borrowed what I could to keep food on the table and the lights on, and now I’m struggling just to catch up. I’m trying to repay those I borrowed from while also covering basic bills, groceries, and paying off some court fines that I can’t ignore any longer. Also, I'm hoping to be able to get some new glasses and some dental work that Medicaid will not cover.

On top of everything, I live with rheumatoid arthritis and sciatica, among depression, anxiety, ADHD and other issues. Most people don’t see the pain I carry with me daily. I try to put on a smile, and I work as a Personal Care Provider for my mom —but sometimes there are days when I struggle to just get out of bed, and it feels like my body and mind is falling apart. But I keep going, because I have to. All I want is to give my children some peace, some stability, and a life that doesn’t feel like it’s always on the edge.

I an trying to apply for food stamps again, because I was kicked off when my oldest got a job, but he has now moved out and got his own place. I’m not asking for a handout—but I’ve reached a point where I can’t do it alone. I just need a little support to help get us through this rough patch. Just enough to help me breathe again.

If you’re able to give anything at all, please know it would mean more than I could ever express. And if you can’t, a share or kind word goes a long way too.

Thank you for taking the time to read our story. It’s not easy to ask for help. Your kindness, your support, and even just your compassion mean more than you’ll ever know.

With love, Andrea ♥️