Becoming Parapalegic single Mom #dontdrinkanddrive

I dread doing this because it's not in my blood to ask anyone for help. I also didn't want anyone to know what has happened to me because I fear for my children's safety and I don't want someone to affect it based on my condition.

1 year and 2 months ago i was hit by a drunk driver from behind on Interstate. He was going 130 mph according to witnesses and I was hit from behind and lost control and my vehicle flipped 3 times and I was thrown from vehicle.
https://www.wate.com/news/woman-hospitalized-5-year-old-injured-from-suspected-dui-crash-in-knoxville/
My daughter was in vehicle with me and so was a brand new baby puppy. The driver fled on foot but didn't make it far. He blew .10 on breathalyzer. My daughter was a miracle. There was and still is no answers about my sweet baby puppy and I was paralyzed at a T4 T5 level and because I was having strokes it was 2 weeks before they could do surgery on my spine. They scared my mother to absolute death making her think I wasn't gonna make it but I was fighting hard. My poor children had to endure and have to endure pain that NO child have to endure at there age loosing there only parent or atleast half of me that is. Thank you Lord for allowing me to live for them. They need me.

So now I'm wheelchair bound. My Mom and Step Dad have came to my rescue for taking over assisting me with my kids and me. That's atleast 2 full-time jobs.

I also lost my best Friend 4 months later, My dad. He had been remodeling my house so I could come back home. He passed away and broke my heart worse than any boy ever thought. I loved my daddy and he loved us so much.

What I am needing help with is remodeling the basement of my house so me and my kids can move back home. I need a wheelchair van that I can drive with hand controls so I can take them to school. I need a accessible bathroom to take a shower. I am a fighter and I don't want to loose my identity as a Mother or a human because I can't feel my legs. Anything anyone can help me with would be awesome. I made my main picture as my babies because they are my wheel power to fight. This is all for them. Even if you have advice to lend me in this situation. Anything. Prayer.

I have a God-fearing mother who has been a women of God and always standing in the gap for me and I remember waking up in UT hospital and hearing my mother proclaiming LIFE and HEALING and I knew exactly who she was and I'm so thankful. I had a brain Injury I guess called TBI and they weren't sure what would happen. I do have memory issues but the second I woke up I heard my sweet mother and I immediately demanded them to let me go see my babies. They had me restrained. I also remember wiggling out of there restraints and making deals with my friends to come get me Lol I wasn't allowed to leave in my condition but you bet I tried LOL.