Having a daughter changed my life for the better. I thought about how i was brought up. I was brought up getting spanked and yelled at, but my parents also let us explore and learn things on our own. I dont think it was intentional it was just life at the time. There was no internet or Chat GPT to give them answers and they worked so hard they didnt have time. Our parents kind of had an excuse to be crazy parents.

I do have access to knowledge, so as a dad I dont feel i have an excuse to just wing it. The knowledge is easily accessable and available at the touch of a key. The initial search starts with what is the best interest of my child. From there key words such as emotionally present, or emotional regulation started appearing in all of the videos and search results.

Over time I starting becoming self-aware. Aware that emotions are a thing that affects your behavior. combine this with having a child and that a child does not know how to regulate their emotions and use us to help them learn. They mimic us. I started to learn how to overcome stress and be calm in most situation. A challenge never before concieved or attempted. I learned and developed a technique to manage my emotions and become a very good dad. I called the system the foundation scrolls.

I didnt think much of it until i showed some people and they said i should write a book. So eventuall I did and 200,000 words later i have a manuscripts and thats not even 1/100 of what i have planned. This book once completed will become part of a life kit that will aid my daughter in her life's challenges. Tips, hacks and examples of things that will enhance her life, especially when i am not around. This is me in a book. All of my experience and research consulidated into a kit to hand down as my legacy to her. My goal is to raise funds so i can complete this kit, publish my book and complete this project for my baby.