As many of you know, my husband Charles was recently diagnosed with stage 4 colorectal cancer, with metastases to his liver and lungs. He is beginning a six-month course of chemotherapy, and we are also pursuing complementary therapies, including Traditional Chinese Medicine, to support his strength, comfort, and overall well-being throughout treatment.

This journey is challenging, and while we are committed to facing it together with hope and determination, there are many practical aspects of daily life that will be difficult to manage alongside treatment. We’ve been deeply touched by how many of you have reached out asking how you can help. Because we live far from much of our family and close friends, in-person support isn’t always possible — but your kindness, encouragement, and generosity mean the world to us.

After careful thought, we realized that the best way friends and family can help from a distance is by contributing to a fund that allows us to maintain stability and nutrition during this time.

Your generosity will help cover:

Healthy meal delivery: Charles has started a strict ketogenic diet. Having meals delivered helps reduce daily stress and supports both of us in staying nourished and focused on healing.

House cleaning and home support: Lightens the load so we can focus on treatment, rest, and recovery.

Oncology-focused TCM herbs and supplements: Supports Charles’ integrative care, helping his body stay resilient during chemotherapy.

Gas, parking, and medical travel expenses: Helps offset the frequent trips to and from treatment.

Every contribution—large or small—helps ease our burden and allows us to focus more fully on healing and time together. We’re deeply grateful for your kindness, love, and ongoing support during this time.

With love and gratitude,

Mary & Charles