Abused widow now losing my home

Hello my names kirsty age 33

mum of 2 girls

Amelia age 12 & Isla age 7 

At the age of 15 I thought I had found who was the love of you life within Matthew.

Matthew and he’s family was what seemed absolutely perfect as I didn’t have the best childhood due to my own father taking he’s own life.

however I’ll cut to the chase, at the age of just 16 I moved in with Matthew & family, slowly but surely they soon had me trapped in their little bubble and revealed their true colours.

I was silenced and kicked to the curb without even realising, I was abused mentally with manipulation, gaslighting etc

my thoughts needs an emotions we’re completely dismissed and I was lead to believe Matthew and he’s mum where absolute saints never got the credit or treatment they deserved.

I was pushed away from my family and friends and all I had was then, I learnt I couldn’t speak up about anything as if I did I’d get spoken to like shit and made to believe I was wrong.

Matthew had racked up debt in my name over years and years without me knowing, he passed away in September 2023 after 3 years of betterling cancer we ended up in debt with everyday house bills etc, I became my mums carer and was paying of the debts I new about as much as I could but was struggling to do so, I sold the family home to my mum for a quick sale and bought this house and thought everything was fine and dandy as such, until the debts Matthew had racked up in my name found me and then everything just got to much and I fell behind on mortgage payments etc as I was trying to pay all the debts as-well as current bills and keep us fed, on £750mp it’s impossible I’m now in debt with the mortgage and they gave me chance after chance but I just couldn’t afford to cover everything, the mortgage debt eventually took me to court and the court then gave me another chance otherwise repossession, that’s when I put the house up for sale as I new I couldn’t manage in the mean time I was paying whatever I could towards the house and now bills have racked up even more coz they have gone unpaid instead, the court gave me extended time for the sale of the house to go through and it’s collapsed. I had until the 31st July witch was mute then enough time for the sale to go through I had the solicitors word. Now not only is the house getting repossess but I’ve also racked up about £4k in debt with bills etc it’s just a massive mess. 

I’ve contacted the court and waiting a response as I’ve contacted a few companies that buy the house for way below market value but it’s cash so am hoping the court will understand the situation and allow me the extended time but they have been so patient with already am not convinced they will at all.

Im not even sure the mortgage company will allow me to sell the house for under value but it’s the only option I have 

the pictures you can see attached are donations I made to a worthy cause when I sold the family home and believed that was the last of the struggle's

I've always helped when and where I can as I know just how difficult life is today, its took a lot for me set up this fundraiser and ask for help

Any help would be so gratefully appreciated and thank you so much for reading