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Hello. My name is David Hoving(Rank removed per censorship). As many of you know, our family has just moved into an apartment, after being homeless since November 28, 2015. After years of trying to figure out where our money was going, it turns out that war related PTSD was the culprit. It cost us our home, our vehicles...almost our family. Our rent is now taken out automatically but, setting up shop after spending every dime on survival for months is costly and we have gotten back in the red. Angie's medications alone (with insurance) are over $300 per month, including the "miracle drug" that is keeping her alive for the moment. However, this drug is much like chemo in it's side effects and the costs for extra care for the boys and eating out and convenience foods has blasted us at every turn. It seems , without a sizable injection of funds, we find ourselves staring down the barrel of the nightmare of homelessness again. For reasons of pure uncompassionate dysfunction, both Angie's family, as well as mine, have turned their back on us due to her terminal illness. That, in itself, has been unimaginably difficult to handle, especially for Angie. Although one of Angie's terminal illnesses is being treated, her  other terminal diagnosis are untreatable and showing their ugly heads. Her prognosis remains "Grim-Day to day". Our credit prevents us from getting a loan. My active duty status prevents us from even getting a payday loan. If the ring I bought Angie a month ago was worth more than $50, she'd gladly sell it. Even her wedding band will only fetch $80 at a jeweler(though it was $900 retail). The food we have in our cupboard is all there is until the 15th, when the overdrafts on our accounts(due to a store's costly error) will eat up around $1000.00 of our pay. We are now trying to figure out what to pawn , again....Angie's wedding band being on the list. At this point, she feels her life is more of a burden than anything else and her death would be the most beneficial thing she could do for us. She has lost faith in humanity, as almost everyone she loves has very cruelly turned way from her...her own mother choosing to upgrade her condo(several thousands of dollars went into this upgrade...her Christmas present for her grandsons? Junk toys costing less than $15 combined), while her grandsons were living in a van in the parking lot at Walmart. My mother offered Angie, the boys and I  her house for Christmas while she was out of town, only to have a psychotic episode and kick us out before we could enjoy a somewhat normal holiday. Somehow, Angie searched tirelessly, at great expense of her own health, and found us this apartment that would overlook MY past misdeeds. Now, not even two months in, starting fresh has cost us more than we have. We had to basically resupply everything from beds to toilet brushes. Luckily our washer and dryer were in storage. After sitting down with her, the amount we need to get in and stay on solid footing is $5000.00. $750.00 of which we need almost immediately to cover bank account overdrafts and keep the bank from swallowing my next paycheck. I know times are tight for everyone but, when I hear my wife say the best financial thing she could do for our family is die and get us her life insurance, it breaks my heart to know she has put some logical thought into this and, funds wise, it IS close to the truth. Please, help anyway you can. Please give her her faith in humanity back. Please relieve her of the decision of discontinuing her medical treatment, to save our family financially. Thank you for your consideration and , no matter what. God Bless.
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    Angela Marie Angelica
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    Indianapolis, IN

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