We Need Help For Our Family

This Journey Of being able to buy our first home For our 4 Boys and now our Baby Girl has not been an easy one. My name is Takia and this is my Beautiful Blended Family! Our oldest son that you see right in the front with that Huge smile name is Damar, he is 17 and brings so much happiness to our family daily. Having a child with special needs is rewarding with joy to see his smile daily but also exhausting with the caretaken and to be able to have a home to roll him in and out would be everything to our family. We've been trying to make sure he's always included in every aspect of life if we can take him with us. The struggle has been hard with not having our own place for us to roll him into. Living with a family member as of September 30th, 2021 with stairs make this journey even more difficult for daily living. We can't take him every where with us, 1 because he's so heavy to carry up and down stairs and a wheelchair. 2 because I'm 9 months pregnant with our first babygirl and have struggled to keep her in my womb, I've had emergency surgery at 24 weeks pregnant with a Huge Cyst of my Ovary and I've been in and out of the hospital since then. I can't lift him and that leaves it all on my fiance and our other oldest son Jamar(15) . Jamar doesn't live a normal teenager life, he's part caretaker and trying to stay focused with school and athletics is a challenge on his body. My fiance is doing everything physically in his power to stay healthy but he's tired and most times mentally drained. Some people can be insensitive when it comes to the man of the house. They act like they dont get tired or is not suppose to shed a tear when he can't physically carry anymore weight on his shoulders. I don't want depression or mental stress or any negative thing within this journey to come against the man in our life because he's an awesome father and a loving man to our family. He's a hard worker and we just need help in this time of our journey. Going to closing in 2 weeks will change our lives and give us a better quality of life, being able to roll our son in and out. Being able to have a home for our new baby girl to grow and play in. All of our boys having a home they can call their own. Not being displaced into shelters, hotels or a family members home that has stairs(that's the daily struggle). Having someone say they will help you with your closing cost the whole step of the way and then 2 weeks before that closing date back out, after knowing we've signed majority of the legal documents puts stress on me being 9 months pregnant, it leaves our family in limbo now and completely displaced.

Our family is just grateful to be alive after having Covid-19 some months ago because somebody didn't wake up. Myself and all of our boys had Covid-19 plus our sons nurse, it was the most scariest 2 to 3 weeks of our lives with Damar having so many severe medical issues already against him and the other boys having Asthma and respiratory struggles. We have been blessed to make it this far in our journey. Please share and if it's on your heart to give, we really appreciate it ! God bless You and Thank You!