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I’m having a difficult task to explain my go fund me. My friends of over 11yrs has had to be confronted with the most horrible thing in the world. Carlos and Sara have been married over 20 yrs and they have 3 amazing kids. Hailey Madison and their little son Bentley. Like us all we have our ups and downs. If I had to say one thing about Carlos it would be he was all about his amazing kids and family. He went lengths and stood up for kids first and foremost . They didn’t have to be his kids. He loved their sports from softball to soccer and Dance for Madison and now Bentley his lil cowboy. Loved going to the rodeo in lakeside. He was even thrown out of soccer games standing up for our kids. He was a amazing father amazing husband and a amazing friend that would go that extra mile just to be the person he is/ was. He helped me mentally through my divorce but I always had a reply when he was trying to get me to see the bigger picture. He loved my daughters and I’m devasted he went the way he did. It hit us all like a ton of bricks. And had left his family torn apart. We love and miss him. His wife girls and only son are left with nothing to grab onto. I’m trying to raise enough money to help with his funeral housing cost and any other needs they have in this horrific time in our lives when a job is hard sickness terrifies us and people are not what they should be and now their protector has gone away and left them all broken. Can’t imagine what their little minds are doing to them with the sudden void they are having to experience and I’m just trying to help my family friends have not so much struggle to deal with . This makes me cry knowing they feel lost without their wonderful dad to help guide them through their lives and become better people for their journeys they will be having to go . Please help support this heartfelt family and pray that god is in their shadows . Please god let Carlos reach down and have hailey forgive and to quit being hard on your wife and her mom. And guide Sara on how to present this to his only son but most of all help Madison understand why or what has happened . His little girl should never have to go through what she just did the morning carlos left all of us in this so called world we live in. Rest In Peace my friend I hope when we meet again you will welcome us with a great big party. Love you my friend Carlos Waller friends for life. And to my Sara. I’m going to be there for you every step of the way til you understand this was not your fault no matter what the crazy lady shoots out her dirty mouth and you keep being the best mom you can they need you and don’t let anyone stir you in any direction but forward. This time take time to smell the roses. You deserve to be given a forever love like Carlos and he’s gonna prove you in the future that this was not you he is waiting with no more locked doors. I love you and the kids. Let’s hope this go fund me helps you guys out I’m sorry for all your loss and questions you must have. They will be answered on his terms not yours be patient my love it’s coming. Let’s just celebrate your lives together and get these kids to where they need to be in life with great human being values
and just plain good persons. Love you to the moon and back
your friend
Dawn and Paul
and just plain good persons. Love you to the moon and back
your friend
Dawn and Paul
Organizer
Dawn Lovelady
Organizer
El Cajon, CA