My Family is Suffering

My beloved Tom has been more in than out of the hospital and rehabilitation facilities for the last several years. He has had abdominal surgery, an appendectomy, several strokes, and a seizure, cancer, Parkinson's disease, kidney failure, unregulated blood pressure, etc. He is incontinent, both urine and feces, and has spent most of his time in bed, unable to get up. He is very depressed.

My precious adult daughter has been living at home, profoundly depressed and mostly supported by me, also for several years. 

I have multiple chemical sensitivities, chronic pain, chronic fatigue, diabetes, hypertension, etc., etc. I am 73 years old, and although I love my career, it is high stress one.  I live in a house that is beginning to fall apart.

I am a strong, loving, kindly and gentle person, and a pretty happy one. I practice gratitude on a daily basis. But I am having trouble supporting this family and household single-handedly. 

Mostly what I need are funds to repair my house, support Tom's medical treatments and my daughter's therapy, and buy healthy food. Any donations of home-cooked organic and gluten free food would be greatly appreciate.