Help me take this weight off my chest

I am starting this fundraiser for a breast reduction. I am in my early 20s and currently a size 42H. I cannot even begin to imagine spending the rest of my life this way. I have been struggling since I was 15 with back, neck and shoulder pain, trouble sleeping, trouble breathing, the inability to exercise, etc. But most difficult and most important, my mental health as a mom. Carrying 30-40 pounds of weight on my chest daily has really taken its toll on me. It has affected my productivity, my stamina, my mood, and my ability to be the best mom that I know I can be. This is not only for me, but this is for my son Remy. I have so much to accomplish for both him and I. But Mentally and physically , I feel defeated. The first and most important step to starting our life would be this procedure. These funds would go towards paying for an out of pocket surgery and recovery due to my insurance not being willing to get this approved. Any help would be beyond appreciated and I would be forever grateful to this community.