My name is Liz and my mom, Virginia Kuder (Messics), had a sudden and severe stroke that took away everything suddenly. Her prior condition of Alzheimer’s made this worse. So, my decision was hard, but it was to give her peace and quality of life over being in a home as a body with no mind, just a feeding tube and trach. So, Im letting her go peacefully.

My mom has been disabled her entire life and has been on SSI. I have been diagnosed with multiple conditions that do not allow me to work. My husband has been working 7 days a week to support me and mom for over 3 years. I want to give something to my mom since she’s been my one and only and don’t like asking for help. But I need help with cremation and service costs, please. This woman would give to anyone and had a heart of gold and a smart Alec attitude to back it up. Please help me lay my mom to rest respectfully. Her insurance is only covering a part of it sadly.