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If you’ve been part of the global polyamory or conscious relationship community over the last seven years, chances are Evita has touched your life in some way. Through her writing, videos, workshops, and relentless vulnerability, she’s given the world a new language for love—one rooted in honesty, compassion, and self-awareness.
Now, it’s our turn to show up for them.
After four transformative years of deep healing and self-discovery in her hometown, Evita is making an unexpected move back to California to help care for their special needs child. This decision, while filled with joy and purpose, also comes with immense financial and emotional challenges.
In their own words:
“I’m terrified and yet, I know I am cradled in the arms of the universe."
Evita is leaving behind her sanctuary apartment, a job they love, dear friends, and a community that has nourished her. They're stepping into the unknown—for love, for family, and for the next evolution of their journey.
For nearly a decade, Evita has poured their heart into educating others about non-monogamy, communication, and healing. They've helped countless people build healthier, more authentic relationships—often at great personal cost, and almost always for free.
If their work has ever touched you, inspired you, or helped you see love differently, now is the moment to give back.
Your contribution will go directly toward:
- Moving expenses and travel back to California
- Establishing housing near their family
- Supporting their special needs child
- Rebuilding stability as they continue their work and adjust to this major life change
Let’s remind Evita what they've reminded us for years...that community care is real, that we are never alone, and that love, in all its forms, is worth showing up for.
✨ Donate what you can. Share widely. Speak blessings over this next chapter. ✨
Evita has given so much of themself to all of us—now it’s our turn to hold them as they step into this brave, beautiful new beginning.
Organizer and beneficiary
Evita Sawyers
Beneficiary

