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Vanessa & eri's Relationship Transition Support

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Hello wonderful loving community & family,

It is with deep love and sadness that we, Vanessa and eri, share that we have made a mutual decision to go through a process of conscious uncoupling and transition from our relationship as live-in partners. We have tried many things over the years to meet each other’s needs and it has not been possible in our current relationship setup. So we are changing things up and could really use your support!

We are still in love with each other and will continue to be connected to care for each other and our fur babies, Demi and Elton. We don’t want you to feel like you need to choose sides. Please be in touch with each of us separately, as we both really need our community during this time of relationship transition. The grief of this transition is heavy and we need the support of our loved ones.

Request:
This transition has already been so emotionally taxing, and the stress of being financially sustainable in capitalism is super overwhelming right now. We are asking for community support to resource us during this tough transition. Vanessa is planning to relocate to SoCal by the summer and eri is making a trip back to Hawai’i to get some love from their loved ones at the end of this month. Both of us could use more resources to support our little family to be good to each other and ourselves.

Please if you are able to make a donation, we have a shared goal of raising $10,000 to be able to make ends meet over the next several months. This includes:
  • supporting financial sustainability for the home and car that we purchased together - (SIDE NOTE: eri will be looking for a housemate in the coming months, so if you know anyone who might be a good addition to our home in North Highlands, Sacramento holler!)
  • care for our fur babies
  • Mental health support for both of us
  • eri’s trip home to Hawai’i
  • Vanessa’s move to SoCal (movers, securing rental + deposit)
  • GoFundMe Fees!

With deep gratitude & love,
Vanessa & eri

Organizer

Eri Oura
Organizer
Foothill Farms, CA

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