Hullo, darling friends!
As most of you know, my long-term relationship just ended, resulting in me being unhoused.
Additionally, my van, which is currently my lifeline, needs all three catalytic converters replaced ASAP. I can't keep driving it everywhere, especially long distances, without getting them replaced. It's starting to get critical.
Additionally additionally, my dentist has told me that with my three planned extractions for teeth that absolutely can't be saved, I am going to need bone grafts in order to keep my jaw from crumbling/collapsing to an extent, which can cause my face to sag.
Additionally additionally additionally, moving is so very expensive. There's hopping from one friends house to another, buying secure storage totes so that my belongings don't get eaten by bugs and mice where I'm able to store them, so much gas, etc.
AND additionally additionally additionally additionally, because I am unhoused, I am frantically looking for somewhere to live. I have still not been approved yet for disability, so my funds are dangerously inadequate for rent, let alone first and last month and pet deposit. I have a wonderful future housemate lined up, but I need to be able to raise the funds to help us move into a place where we can both be safe and happy.
So yeah. I am absolutely drowning in debt. I am drowning in expenses I cannot pay. I am drowning drowning drowning. I have put off starting to go fund me for this, because I have asked for so much from my community. You have always held me up and kept me safe, and for that I am eternally grateful. right now though, I don't have any choice. I need help, and I need it ASAP.
this is the largest sum I have ever asked for on here. I feel like a failure as an adult, but I don't know where else to turn. Please, if you can help, I would be forever grateful.
so the breakdown of where the funds would go and for what amount:
- First and last month rent and pet deposit: $2000
- Catalytic converters: $3000
- Recover from moving costs: $1500
- Bone grafts: $3000
- Gas/existing: $500
This
is a very simplified list, and there are so many other expenses. I doubt I will be able to reach a goal of $10,000 as it is though, so that is the list for now.
All Love~

