
Urgent Help Needed for Sandra's Medical Care
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Help Sandra Fight for Her Life and Overcome Unimaginable Challenges
A Plea for Help:
Dear Friends, Family, and Kind Strangers,
My name is Sandra. I am 31 years old, and I’m reaching out to you with a heavy heart, seeking your support during what has been the most challenging time of my life. Over the past few years, I have faced a series of devastating losses and health challenges that have left me in a very vulnerable position.
In July 2021, I lost my beloved husband to stage 4 colon cancer. A month later, in August 2021, I lost my cousin, who was more like a brother to me. Then, last year, my grandmother, who raised me and was like a mother to me, tragically passed away after a fall. The grief and loss have been overwhelming, and the financial strain these events have caused has left my family and me in a precarious situation.
A Battle on Multiple Fronts:
As if these losses weren’t enough, the bacterial infection I fought years ago has returned, threatening my health and my life. I’ve lost a significant amount of weight, dropping from 134 pounds to just 90, and I’m severely malnourished. Despite this, the medical exams I urgently need, including an endoscopy and colonoscopy to check for potential cancer spread, are out of reach because I don’t have insurance, and I’m unable to pay for these procedures out of pocket.
The stress of my deteriorating health is compounded by ongoing threats and harassment from a former roommate who attempted to pressure me into a romantic relationship. His family has powerful connections and lawyers, and I’ve been receiving constant threats from random individuals, warning me to drop the charges against him or face serious consequences. The emotional and mental toll of these threats is enormous, and it’s making my already fragile health even worse.
If anyone knows of a pro bono lawyer or can recommend affordable legal representation, it would be a tremendous help. Any donations to help cover the costs of hiring a lawyer would also be greatly appreciated, as I am unable to afford one on my own.
Struggling to Survive:
Currently, I am unable to work due to my health, and my fiancé, who has been my unwavering support, is also struggling to find employment. We are residents of Bergen County, NJ and my fiancé has years of experience in self-storage management. If anyone knows of job openings, please contact us. I am an e-commerce specialist and will be offering my services soon on Fiverr, a freelance platform. Even if you can’t support me through this campaign, supporting my business once I launch it would mean the world to me.
My medical bills are piling up, and I am already vomiting blood, a sign that my condition is becoming critical. The ER can only manage my symptoms; they cannot perform the procedures I need, which are considered outpatient services. But without insurance, the outpatient clinics won’t even schedule me. This leaves me in a dire situation where I urgently need to raise funds for these life-saving exams.
How You Can Help:
I am asking for your help, whether through a donation, sharing this page, or providing useful information such as a good lawyer’s contact, job opportunities, or even just kind words of encouragement. Every bit of support makes a difference. I have studied religions for over a decade, and I welcome prayers from all faiths. I believe that the collective energy of shared prayers and good intentions can make a powerful impact, helping me to heal and prevent the worst outcomes.
My condition could be fatal if left untreated, and I’m terrified of the possibility of needing a stoma bag, especially given my family’s history of stomach cancer. I lost a dear aunt, Eve, to this horrible disease, and the fear of following in her footsteps weighs heavily on me.
Please, if you can find it in your heart to help in any way, no matter how small, I would be forever grateful. Even just spreading the word or offering a prayer on my behalf can make a world of difference.
In Closing:
Thank you for taking the time to read my story. I am fighting with everything I have, but I cannot do it alone. Your support could be the lifeline I need to survive this and get back on my feet. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you for your kindness, your generosity, and your willingness to help a stranger in need.
With love and gratitude,
Sandra
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Sandra Cartagena
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Lodi, NJ