Hi, I’m reaching out today because I need your help. Disaster has struck the United States, and an era of anger, demagoguery, and political violence threatens to unshackle the last remnants of stability and cohesiveness this country possesses.
And, at the heart of this upheaval, are people. I am unlucky enough to count myself among the number of people who are facing disproportionate hate and discrimination, and without your help, the situation will continue to unravel around me.
The rising tide of anti-trans legislation and political violence has made it unsafe for me to remain in my home in Kansas City. For my physical safety and mental well-being, I have to make the difficult decision to move, find a new community, and restart my life in a place where I can be safe.
This isn’t the first time I've had to fight for my survival. My life has been a series of battles: I emancipated myself from an abusive home at 15, have survived three separate instances of homelessness, and have faced down slurs and slander for my identity. I have always found a way through, but the current wave of laws designed to erase trans people from public life is a storm I cannot weather alone.
My ability to access gender-affirming care, to be safe in my community, and to simply exist as myself is under direct threat. I cannot build a future here any longer.
How Your Support Will Help
I'm calling on my friends, family, and community to help me make this life-saving move. I've crossed my Rubicon—there is no turning back. Your contribution will directly fund the essentials I need to start over:
• Moving Expenses: Cost of packing & traveling to a safer state = $2,500
• Housing Security: Funds for a security deposit and the first month of rent = $1,750
• Continuing Education: Help to find and enroll in new school programs so I don't have to abandon my goals = $1,000
• Essential Healthcare: Ensuring I can continue to access the gender-affirming care I need to thrive. . .
Top surgery = $5,000
Tracheal shave = $4,000
FFS = $50,000
Bottom surgery = $20,000
Total: $85,000
I am starting at 14k with incremental increases. If I exceed the total goal, I will donate the rest of the funds to a trans-specific charity or mutual aid fund assisting people with similar issues.
My Dream for the Future
I dream of a simple future: one where I can be myself without fear. Where I can watch the birds, feel the wind on my face, and not have to constantly look over my shoulder.
Every donation, share, and message of support is a step toward that future. You would be giving me the chance not just to survive, but to one day flourish. Thank you for your solidarity and your generosity.

