Urgent Funds for my beloved uncle Ram Thapa's Medical Bills

My heart HURTS. It hurts very much. And I feel like I can’t breathe.

My beloved uncle Ram, who is more close to my heart and my life than my own father (if you know you know) suffered massive stroke few months ago.

By the time he reached hospital, I heard he was already cold, they had to perform 20 minutes of CPR!!!

We kept him in the hospital for 4 months, hoping and praying for a miracle. After frequent family discussions with the doctors, he has been now discharged to the hospice home. He is in vegetative state, with trach and tube feeding, contracted, covered in bedsores. +craniotomy. I CANNOT imagine him in this state.

My heart aches. It aches a lot.

This is the same uncle whose little 5 year old beautiful son was hit and run by a truck and instantly killed at the scene. As a loving parent, having to deal with child’s traumatic death I cannot even imagine how hard it must have been for him.

In addition, he was born as a twin, his twin brother died at birth, but he survived. He survived but not without health issues. I do not wish to mention more medical problems in here, as you know I am a healthcare provider as well and I could go on but let me stop right here, because I would like to remember him as my beloved one, not a person with illness.

He is my beloved uncle who used to come pick me up from my home during every school break to go to grandma’s. We would have a long walk in the farm and sometimes even steal some fruits from the tree, just for fun.

I remember he let me secretly wear his pants when I was barely a teenage girl, because my father would not allow me to wear pants. Of course it was big but we would tie a belt and fold few inches in the bottom. He checked up on me every so often when my father was not around.

He took care of me (and my siblings) with so much joy and pride. I don’t ever remember him being angry. He is a man of honesty and integrity. We shared so many fond memories growing up in Nepal, simple but priceless memories. I wish I had some pictures but they were pre-cell phone eras.

I have been a hospice/palliative Nurse Practitioner for decades, I can see what’s happening BUT at the same time I believe in JEHOVAH RAPHA! The Ultimate Physician, Who can heal any and all diseases!!! Please pray with me for his healing.

Importantly, I would like to humbly ask for any amount of monetary donations that you would like to give. He has a hospital bill for the last 4 months due, also the cost of hospice home that he will be in as long as God decides to keep him in there. I would also like to set up a little school fund for his 14 year old daughter Esther. Esther has been having extremely hard time accepting everything that is happening around her, please keep her in your prayer.

As well as for his wife, Prerena who has been in shock for a while.

Thank you in advance. May our Good Lord Bless you thousand fold more for your generous heart.

Yojana Thapa Tsui (Niece)

On behalf of Ram Thapa Family.