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English version is below.
Türkçe versiyonu aşağıda.
Hallo, ich bin Selin.
Sedat und ich sind seit 14 Jahren zusammen und 10 davon verheiratet und wir sind immer noch sehr verliebt ineinander. Nach 5 Jahren der Bemühungen wurde unser süßer Sohn Maui geboren. Sedat ist ein wunderbarer und sehr glücklicher Vater.
Als ich im Januar 2024 erfuhr, dass mein geliebter Mann Sedat an Krebs erkrankt war, brach für mich eine Welt zusammen. Unser Leben, das wir so sorgfältig aufgebaut hatten, schien plötzlich in Trümmern zu liegen. Sedat hatte jahrelang hart gearbeitet, um uns ein schönes Leben zu ermöglichen. Er gab sogar seine beliebte Bar auf, um mehr Zeit mit unserem Sohn Maui verbringen zu können.
Doch nun stehen wir vor einer finanziellen Herausforderung. Wir haben all unsere Ersparnisse aufgebraucht und kein Einkommen mehr. Als freiberufliche Fotokünstlerin und Yogalehrerin fällt es mir schwer zu arbeiten, da ich mich um Sedats Gesundheit kümmern muss. Die Kosten für eine Vollzeitbetreuung belasten uns zusätzlich. Der Behandlungsprozess ist schon eine große Belastung und ich möchte nicht, dass das Geld uns noch zusätzliche Not bereitet.
Deshalb sind wir auf Unterstützung angewiesen. Jeder Beitrag zählt, sei es durch finanzielle Hilfe oder einfach durch positive Energie und Gebete. Ich verspreche im Gegenzug jedem von euch Liebe und Dankbarkeit sowie eine kostenlose Yogastunde als kleines Dankeschön.
Sedat kämpft tapfer gegen den Krebs an und ich stehe ihm bedingungslos zur Seite. Gemeinsam werden wir diese schwere Zeit überstehen und hoffen auf eine bessere Zukunft für uns und unseren geliebten Sohn Maui.
Ich habe die Berechnungen durchgeführt und vorhergesagt, dass wir eine Erholungsphase von einem Jahr haben würden.
Danke für eure Unterstützung in dieser schweren Zeit!
English
Hello, I'm Selin.
Sedat and I have been together for 14 years and married for 10 of them and we are still very much in love with each other. After 5 years of effort, our sweet son Maui was born. Sedat is a wonderful and very happy father.
When I found out in January 2024 that my beloved husband Sedat had cancer, my world collapsed. The life we had so carefully built suddenly seemed to be in ruins. Sedat had worked hard for years to give us a good life. He even gave up his popular bar to spend more time with our son, Maui.
But now we are faced with a financial challenge. We have used up all our savings and have no income left. As a freelance photographer and yoga teacher, I find it difficult to work because I have to take care of Sedat's health. The costs of full-time care place an additional burden on us. The treatment process is already a big burden and I don't want the money to cause us any additional hardship.
I did the calculate and predicted we would have a one year recovery period.
That's why we depend on support. Every contribution counts, be it through financial help or simply through positive energy and prayers. In return, I promise each of you love and gratitude as well as a free yoga class as a small thank you.
Sedat is fighting bravely against cancer and I support him unconditionally. Together we will get through this difficult time and hope for a better future for ourselves and our beloved son Maui.
Thank you for your support during this difficult time!
Turkish
Merhaba, ben Selin.
Sedat ile birbirimize çok aşık 14 yıllık bir ilişkimiz var. 5 yıllık bir çabanın ardından tatlı oğlumuz Maui doğdu. Sedat harika ve çok mutlu bir baba. Çok çalıştı. Çok sevilen bir bar açtı ve 5 yıl onu işletti, barı çok sevildi ama oğlumuza zaman ayırmak için, sağlıklı olmak için barı sattı.
İkimiz de fotoğraf sanatçısıyız, ve ben yoga öğretmeniyim.
Her şey çok güzel giderken ve oğluyla daha çok zaman geçirmek isterken Ocak 2024 te onun kanser olduğunu öğrendik. Bir günde hayatımız değişti ve iş planlarımızı ertelemek zorunda kaldık.
Şimdiye kadar kazandığımız para ile geçindik ve artık bitti. Freelance olduğumuz için gelirimiz yok. Çalışmam mümkün görünmüyor. Sevgilimin iyi olması için onun sağlığına ve bu dönemi iyi geçirmesi için Maui'ye odaklanmalıyım. Çünkü endişeleri çok.
Hesaplamaları 1 yıllık iyileşme sürecimiz olduğunu öngörerek yaptım.
Bunları yaparken tam zamanlı bir desteğe ihtiyacım var ve bana destek olacak kişinin de giderleri hesaplanıyor. Temizlik, bebek bakıcılığı, ev işleri gibi.
Destekleriniz bizim için bir gelir sayılacağı için vergi ödemememiz gerekecek bunu da hesaba dahil ettim.
Destekleriniz için teşekkür ederim. Karşılığında her birinize sevgi enerjisi göndereceğim ve isterseniz yoga dersi hediye :)
Eğer planlanandan fazla para gelirse Maui'nin geleceği için ayıracağım.
English
Hello, I'm Selin.
Sedat and I have been together for 14 years and married for 10 of them and we are still very much in love with each other. After 5 years of effort, our sweet son Maui was born. Sedat is a wonderful and very happy father.
When I found out in January 2024 that my beloved husband Sedat had cancer, my world collapsed. The life we had so carefully built suddenly seemed to be in ruins. Sedat had worked hard for years to give us a good life. He even gave up his popular bar to spend more time with our son, Maui.
But now we are faced with a financial challenge. We have used up all our savings and have no income left. As a freelance photographer and yoga teacher, I find it difficult to work because I have to take care of Sedat's health. The costs of full-time care place an additional burden on us. The treatment process is already a big burden and I don't want the money to cause us any additional hardship.
I did the calculate and predicted we would have a one year recovery period.
That's why we depend on support. Every contribution counts, be it through financial help or simply through positive energy and prayers. In return, I promise each of you love and gratitude as well as a free yoga class as a small thank you.
Sedat is fighting bravely against cancer and I support him unconditionally. Together we will get through this difficult time and hope for a better future for ourselves and our beloved son Maui.
Thank you for your support during this difficult time!
Organizer

Selin Duyen Mehder
Organizer
Berlin, Berlin