
Forever in our hearts WE LOVE YOU!
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It is with heavy hearts that I share the news that Jay, John, Johnathyn, brother, son, spouse, co worker, soulmate and just the absolute best man in the world! Has transition to his final resting place on 4/12/2024. Thank you to each and every one of you that has donated, reached out, sent Ashley comfort and jays family comfort during these times. Jay was completely blown away with all of the kind words and donations. Ashley and the family are getting arrangements set and will be posting them soon. As we know these days are rough! If you would like to donate for any arrangements cost or any kind words to share I know Ashley and the family would appreciate anything! Thank you truly from the bottom of my heart! It is amazing how 1 man can be loved so so very much!

hey all. For those of you who don’t know me I am Katlyn, Ashley and Jays best friend! Some of us know Jay as John, Jonathan, friend, colleague, family, motor cycle buddy and jet ski friend or even Ashley’s man. Lol. All in all we all know Jay is an absolute pleasure he is the friend and family anyone could want. A top notch employee and did I mention the BEST beach partner ever? Also a dad to 3 wonderful cats Kourtney, Ruby and Luna. I think you get where I am going. He deserves the best of the best and deserves to live his life out exactly the way he wants! Jay has terminal cancer he is fighting and has fought for quite sometime without most even knowing. I hate even typing this let alone saying it. Our friends battle has gotten worse some days are ok other then pain and exhaustion but Jay makes every day a good day. We never know when the day will be, much sooner than anyone wants. I often think about his bucket list and what would make him the happiest and truly fulfilled?! I alone cannot make them happen but I know with our family and friends help we could make some possible!
There is no other way then to just simply ask that you help myself and Ashley along with family and friends to check off somethings on Jays bucket list.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Organizer and beneficiary
Katlyn Thomas
Organizer
St. Petersburg, FL
Ashley Messerman
Beneficiary