
I'll start from the beginning....I was 19 and Krissy was 15 when we first started dating. After a few months I felt that she was too young and broke our relationship off not knowing that she was in love with me and that I broke her heart. Then 25 years later I received a friend request on Facebook from a beautiful blonde that I did not recognize. I accepted and we started chatting and I realized it was Krissy and we went out on a date....the rest is history. We got married 8/20/2016. Krissy was married before but I never did because I wanted to find my true happiness....and I did in Krissy. Had I not been stupid 25 years earlier my life would have been set a long time ago. In June 2017 Krissy started getting severe headaches and would pass out. It got so bad she would stop breathing. I had to give her CPR on I few occasions to bring her back and rush her to the hospital only find out nothing and be sent on our way with a big bill. After going to several doctors and getting tons of bills, my sister hooked us up with a doctor that has pretty much fixed the problem. Krissy had a nerve that would get pinched in the back of her neck that would cause all the problems. With that taken care of ...disaster struck my wife again. in January 2018 she found a lump in her right breast and went to the doctor to find out what it was...results came back ….CANCER. We went to several doctors around home only to get beat around the bush...go see this doctor and that doctor and this specialist and come back here then go here...it was nothing but the runaround with lots of bills and no help. after 2 months I made the call to Cancer Treatment Centers Of America in Chicago, 3 days later we were flown out and the help Krissy desperately needed came. She is HER2 positive and has the BRCA1 gene so her breast cancer is very aggressive and very bad. She has had a double mastectomy with total reconstruction, a hysterectomy, 20 rounds of radiation, and 18 chemotherapy treatments so far. We were both going to Chicago every 3 weeks for her treatments which started in March of 2018 and is still going...but I had to stop going with her to stay and work to try and keep our heads above water. I am her safety blanket and she is scared to death to go without me and it pains me to stay back but it has to be done. She had to stop working in March of 2018...she has severe neuropathy, in pain 24/7 and uses a wheelchair to get around most of the time but tries her best not to...now I am the one with a broken heart seeing her in pain all the time. Some of her medications are not covered by Insurance so they are out of pocket and very expensive. We went from 2 incomes to 1 and our bills are piling up with no end in sight. We are losing our home and I went to the bank to borrow $25,000 because we found a foreclosed home that I could fix up to live in.....with all the medical bills that were turned in to collections because I can only give them monthly payments....we were denied any loan. WE NEED YOUR HELP....I don't know what else to do... I have never begged before but I am now. Any amount will help even if its $1 we will be very grateful. I am doing everything I can to save my wife...now i'm asking anyone if you could PLEASE help me help my wife. I have no idea where we are going to live, how I am going to pay all the medical bills from the past 2 years and counting, pay for her medication and so on. The last thing my wife needs right now is all the stress from the last sentence I wrote...her CANCER is enough. THANK YOU in advance.