Turning My Medical Mess Into Inspiration

Hi! My name is Lindsey White and I hope you’ll give me a minute of your time because I have a story to share, a story that I hope will change lives and help other women find strength and calm in the midst of whatever storms life throws their way. I have gone through more in 35 years than most people go through in a lifetime, but I am determined to not wallow in misery. Instead, I want to use my journey to help others, which is why I started writing a book (even while I’m going through yet another surgery). I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in December 2021 and with Behcet’s blood disease in May 2022. These medical conditions, along with the fact that I carry the BRIP1 gene mutation, led my medical team and myself to the inevitable conclusion that it is medically necessary to have a hysterectomy (scheduled for 11/15/22).

If you have followed my CaringBridge then you know that I have already been down a rocky (and very costly) medical path which includes regular life-saving medications and monthly IV treatments. Anyone who has gone through a difficult medical time or watched their loved one go through it knows how expensive, time-consuming, and draining that can be. For me, it’s doubly so because I am unmarried and facing the realization of not being able to withstand a pregnancy. I’m now working as a 1099 independent contractor (to pay those medical bills). This year in particular has challenged me in more ways than I want to admit.

Despite that, I feel like this is the time to share my story, to show other young women that they don’t have to be held back by a diagnosis, a bad relationship, a financial mess, or anything else that happens to them. They can do more than just get through it—they can conquer it, as I’m doing every single day. I now dream of being a motivational speaker who shows people how to find the silver lining and the empowering lesson inside, even in the darkest of times. I knew the best way to do that on a large-scale basis was to commit to getting my story on paper.

After a long search, I have finally found the right person/company to help me write my book and get it out in the world in the next 12-15 months. Yes, I know it’s a big task to take on, especially while I’m also managing my medical issues and working for myself (which means I don’t have a company providing my health insurance). I prayed about this decision and I know it's the right thing to do for me and for my future readers.

I am hesitant to ask for help, because I always like to be strong and figure things out on my own. However, in the past few years, I have realized that none of us get through our journey alone and it’s only through the kind words and support of others that we can come out the other side stronger and happier. I am asking for your help in putting my story on paper so that I can be that voice that helps others along their path. If you would consider donating just $10 towards the cost of writing/editing/publishing/marketing my book, I would be forever grateful. I have a signed contract with JumpStart Creative Solutions, which is owned and managed by a New York Times, Wall Street Journal, USA Today and Amazon bestselling author who has published over 80 books in 24 countries (because this book is important enough to me to hire someone who will treat it with the same love I have). If you are able and willing to contribute, you will be listed as a contributor in the book AND receive a personalized paperback copy after the book launches (unless you want to remain anonymous). If I don't know you personally, I have a website you can visit to learn more about me: 

Www.LindseyMWhite.com

My donation goal is for the total cost of this entire project including the book release, and if I raise more than that, every dime will be applied to my medical costs. I realize there are dozens of fundraisers out there that you could choose from and if you have chosen mine, know that I appreciate you and am forever grateful. Follow this space as the book begins to take shape and my journey—I hope and pray—encourages, supports, and inspires others. Thank you so much!

https://www.caringbridge.org/visit/lindseywhite