Trevor Bonser’s Celebration of Life.

Hi, If you’re seeing this; I’m sure you already know we unexpectedly lost our Trevor March 17th, 2024. Everyone is deeply devastated; especially his poor kids. He went through more than I could imagine; especially for a 27 year old man. He had an aortic valve replacement around 2014-2015. He never let that stop him as he became a father in 2017 to his and Mallories amazing son Lennon Bonser, and we blended our family in 2020, he was a cook for many years for work but had dreams of being a chef (as well as a professional skateboarder which he was EXTREMELY capable of) and he was a damn good one. Definitely a chef in everyone I knows eyes! His heart unfortunately couldn’t handle all the love he had to give, as well as how much it received in return and he unfortunately went into very serious heart failure last December. He had a blood clot, swelling of his heart, and severe aortic dysfunction. He went home on meds and a long term care plan and he was doing so so much better! I loved watching him coming back from what was hell for all of us but especially for him. He still never let that bring him down; his next echocardiogram (where they would check the clot and other issues to decide if they were going to keep him and place a Biventricular Device) was scheduled for less than a week after the day he sadly passed in his sleep during our nap together. As much as that breaks my heart and torments me daily; anybody who knew Trevor knows he fought long and hard and he missed his parents so much. I truly believe since Trevor passed a day after the 8 year anniversary of his parents also very untimely passing, that they knew he was on a long, grueling and painful path and they came and saved him before he had to suffer or be scared anymore. I’m sorry this is so long but I know a lot of Trevor’s friends haven’t seen him in a long time and that’s because he was so dedicated and focused on his family, which I’m so unbelievably grateful for but I am also so sorry to anybody who has missed him and didn’t get to see him recently. We truly had no signs, or idea this would happen like this and by all accounts, especially his own, he was feeling better every day and doing much much better. I just believe everyone who wants to know what happened to my love deserves too and he would want you all to know that he was completely sober and had been for years. I know when young people die out of the blue in their homes that you usually don’t think it was a medical complications because that just very rarely happens; and I truly understandand. I just wanted to be clear that my Trevor passed naturally from complications due to Heart Failure So because of this; Lennon’s god sent of a Mother , His amazing cousin Vicky and I are asking for donations to give Trevor the celebration he deserves as well as his children. Lennon and Leia are struggling deeply with this loss as I’m POSITIVE all of us are. We want to rent a nice venue, have a butterfly release and ultimately have a healthy way for his babies (and everyone involved in his life) to truly begin their healing journey. Any donations received here will go towards his Celebration like renting a good venue, getting some kind of catering, and memorial decorations of him as well as memorial items for the kids to keep. Any extra (if there is any which is not expected but would be amazingly appreciated if we can get to even half our goal) will go towards memorial keepsakes for his two young babies . Mallorie, His cousin Vic and I will be the ones hosting this event so please contact one of us if you have any questions, Thank you so much for reading just a small piece of the story of this amazing, hardworking, goofball, hard headed, full of nothing but love man that I am so so blessed to have as my Fiancé and as Leia’s second (and totally kick-ass) father. I’m just so sorry it was mostly the sad ending. The price of true love, is true grief. We love you Trevor, and everyone who loved him; please stay strong

((PSA: This will be an alcohol free event! We all know Trevor loved a good beer but we just want to keep this as healthy and positive as possible for our babies! And unfortunately grief and alcohol don’t mix very well and we want to give the kids the best chance to healthily start their healing journey thank you for understanding!))