Tongue and lymph node cancer of the neck

Hi, my name is Lisa, my husband has cancer of the tongue and in lymph nodes of the neck. Cancer took his Mom, Dad and brother. He's only 51 years old and he's a proud father of 3 children. He has gotten radiation treatment Monday thru Friday and also chemotherapy. The treatments have killed the cancer except on the left side of his throat, so when he heals, he will still need surgery. He can't swallow his own spit and can only eat out of the feeding tube that was surgically put into his stomach. He can't work and I'm trying my best to take care of our family but unfortunately it's just not enough.