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My brother, Brian, is preparing to donate a kidney to his brother-in-law, Chon, in California. Chon is a great friend of mine and is married to my wife’s best friend, Barbara, which makes this life-saving gift even more meaningful for all of us.
Kidney donor matches between unrelated family members are rare — only about 1 in 15 — so the fact that Brian and Chon are a match feels nothing short of a miracle. Brian is the type of guy who would give away his second kidney if someone needed it, and Chon would be first in line if Brian was in need.
Brian and his family live in New Jersey and will need to travel to California for surgery and recovery, staying near the hospital for about three weeks.
We hope this GoFundMe can help with the costs involved in making this rare and life-saving donation. To support him, we are raising funds to help cover:
Flights from NJ to California
An Airbnb near the hospital for 3 weeks
Food and basic expenses while he recovers
Every donation, big or small, will go directly toward supporting Brian during this journey. If you’re unable to give, sharing this page helps us reach more people.
Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for helping our family during this time. Your kindness will be part of this story of love, sacrifice, and healing.
Organizer and beneficiary
Brian O'Leary
Beneficiary

