Therese's Assistance Fund Part2

  • E
  • a
36 donors
0% complete

$2,419 raised of $5K

Therese's Assistance Fund Part2

Donation protected
GoFundMe
PART TWO OF HELPIN THERESE
          Dear community, I come to you once again to ask for help for my mom.  Im going to give you an update now to how this situation has played out and if you are new to the campaign , then you can read the initial story below this one. Thanks ever so much for reading and caring.
  PART TWO.
           My mom has been here since April.  We rescued her from a critical situation which she was no aware of and brought her over to Canada mostly against her will, to try and help her with her mental and physical issues that were causing her to not function in Spain.  We were successful at getting her out of her situation safely, and brought her to Edmonton where we eventually got her a place after much struggle.  We signed her up for social assistance and got her health care in order so we could get her a psychiatric assessment.  Due to not having a family doctor and using a walk in medi center, we got a very basic knowledgeable doctor who has been mostly unhelpful and has caused us unnescessary setbacks. We were put on a very long waiting list as its different for people of 70 years old.  In the waiting time my mom has improved her skin marvelously, is having her teeth fixed and is eating healthy food and living in a healthy lifestyle on her own a few houses from my lil bro and I.  Her mental situation has only improved slightly as she is not alone anymore and is being coaxed by us to relate to us and people somewhat.  
           The thing that has not changed is her loathing to be here which has been an issue every day and stops her from being able to help her mind which she entertains delusional stories about money, people and events all relating to her situation in life.  
    Currently she is obsessed with returning to her homeland so she makes up that she is leaving on the next plane and asks who is driving her to the airport.  She also makes up that she has money in accounts in Spain and that she has talked to her friends there, which isnt true.  She is Deriving all this info from a pendulum that she talks to which instead of giving her the answers of reality, because she dosnt know how to detach from her overwhelming desperate need, she makes up the wishful thinking answers and calls it divination.  
     This has made it ever so hard to get through to her on, cause most people who are delusional are believing the stores in their head but my mom thinks the answers are coming from a pendulum reading external reality and she thinks she is great at it.  She calls it her hobby and she says we dont understand, that she was taught by a master, and that she is in her own little world and not hurting anyone.  She dosnt realize she is going crazy because of it.  Because she hates it here she cant settle into changing her mind because she is focused on getting back there in her head.  Before coming here she was soly focused on physically chasing fictitious money and making appointments with people who never showed up and making stories up that never happened based around money.  Different stories are surfacing here out of her desperation to get back to Spain, and she still believes in the stories she made up there because they were her only reality.
    After 3 months here she  realized there is a problem but dosnt want to face it as its scary and may mean never getting home, and even if she is to face it, she wants to do it in Spain and not here.  But there she has no one who knows what the stories are and no one close to her, no car, no home, no one willing to deal with someone with mental issues like her kids have.  But she dosnt see that.  So her psychic evaluation is on this Aug 2.  She has just had this initial evaluation, which has not shed much light on the situation, and have been put on another waiting due to her non emergency staus list.  Maybe we will get her issues addressed here in Canada or not it is yet to be determined if we are going to take power of attorney and get her help against her will to get her onto anty psycotics and then send her back.  Then she will have a chance to see here clearly with out the delusions   what she is up against.  Because we dont have power of attorney we cant legally keep her unless she is harming her self or others, so its a very tricky situation.  She also threatens that she would rather die than be here any longer.  That is why we want to respect her her wish to go back and are burned out from being with someone who is 20 % delusional and unable to see the situation logically, get help , enjoy life and is unable to help themselves have a better quality of life.  
        We have given notice in the apartment she is in and will be sending her back as soon as possible.  We must find her a place there to land, we must rent her an apartment from here with her Spanish pension and our additional monetary support. She is already set up with the health care system there.  She is unable to make business happen, pay bills or use her computer fully, which she said was broken but wasnt, cause we brought it over here.  She lost that ability in the last two years of trauma and delusion she was experiencing over there.   She, I, (as I have taken responsibility of her debt) have a debt of 2000 dollars from her storage unit that is only holding her life belongings till Aug 31 2017.  
              Needless to say its a sad and difficult situation to be in and we need help.    At least its not critical as it was before and Im not involved in traveling to  a country to save my mom from her delusional mind and a difficult life culminating in depression, finding her eating packaged food, in a room full of cat urine with bleeding woulds all over her face legs and arms. I had wit no idea as to what I was going to find or how I was going to take her away to Canada.
       This second campaign part is simpler but money based and needing of us as a family to let go of needing to help her fix her all here and do the best to get her some help and get her back to Spain.   She is unhappy here, maybe we can make her comfortable there, get her in the medical system there and hope that there is still some chance that she will get out of the delusional aspect.  
         We need your help if you can, anything would be of great value to us to make the next steps happen.   Get her sorted as much as we can here, get her a plane ticket, stabilize her in Spain, get her and apartment and pay her storage unit fee.  Its no small task but we are on it, we have some Canadian social assistance and with your help we know we can do it. We are so grateful for the 3000 dollars that came in from the last campaign.               There was a large donation from a dear friend of mine who donated 1000 + dollars just to show you how blessed  and grateful we are and how I believe in the magic of life.  I am in dept with anyone who shares their effort with us and willing to repay everyone back in money, trade or a gift back to you, so please as of me what you think I or my brothers could help you out with. I  don’t expect anything from anyone. My most deepest gratitude and knowing of your blessedness my dear fellow beings!!


PART ONE OF CAMPAIGN.
 DIVINELY REQUESTING IMMEDIATE CRITICAL                                                  HELP FOR MOM 
(Version en Espanol mas abajo)
      Dear community if you do not know already my brothers and I have been trying desperately to help my mother Therese, who is in a critical situation right now.   If you are willing to help Please SEE her as healed and not as struggling, as that dosnt help. There is a donation system, or if youre not able, please SHARE this plight with a few caring words on your Share, as that is ever so effective and helpful. Thank you endlessly!!))))
    Therese  has a mental  breakdown from being alone, (which till recently was her conscious choice to be alone in Mallorca) from an infection that was not properly dealt with, out of shame and  a lack of monetary funds.  Therese has 90% of her body scarred from this infection and is in hiding , not getting help.   If you are willing to help Please see her as healed and not as struggling as that dosnt help.  There is a donation system, or if youre not able, PLEASE SHARE this plight with a few caring words on your Share,  as that is ever so effective and helpful.                     Thank you endlessly!!))))
     In this depression masked as, everything is alright, she is now unable to distinguish reality from delusion in about 20% of the time.  Her stories are getting more delusional and more frequent, progressing quite rapidly, we now know they are a cry for help.    She is in this position because she never got help for her mental and emotional trauma. She has been shamed since she was 5 years old and told that she was worthless by her father and that she would never be anything.  She has been physically and mentally abused alot in her life ( I will not go into detail out of respect, but what this woman has experienced is almost unreal) and still pulled through.           She learned that her feelings are not important, valid or to be shared, and if she has a problem she's always been told to shut up and hide it.  Through all this she still managed to have a productive life, being ever so sucessfull in her healing and health business, helping others to the moon and back, having us and vowing to never have her kids experience what she did.  She lived /s to love us and help others.  Anyone who knows her knows she always gives more then she has, which isnt healthy in the long run.
   Three years ago she was living in an apartment in Mallorca Spain, (where shes been living 40 years), and saw a pile of garbage outside her window and a building manager going to sweep and she told him not to clean with out correct methods cause the dust would come into her home. He didn’t proceed and went away.  My mom was out and left the window open the next day and he had cleaned the huge pile of dirt and garbage, and the dirt and dust it all came into her suite.  That day she got infested with two different types of dust mites.  She was so distraught.   She told us she went to the police but I don’t believe her. We told her to sue or take it up with the law and to go to the hospital but she never did out of fear and shame and thinking she was helpless in her situation,  and that she had to suffer it on her own in silence.  She said she was scared of the evil landlord.   She went for over two years with the infection.  She always made it sound not so terrible, and so we didnt know how to help her.  
      As Therese is scarred on 90% of her body, she is petrified of anyone seeing her.  No money, except for a minimal monthly pension, and an infection that destroyed her looks, morale and immune system, she started loosing her mind to fear and homelessness-hopelessness, especially from being alone.   She never wanted to come here  and relating is a challenge as the world in  her experience has never shown her much love, a brake or such.   Reflective of how she thinks of her self.
    Seven years ago she made a friendship investment and was swindled out of the remaining of her money by two crooked lawyers.  She has maintained hope till now saying there is always a lawyer getting the money for her tomorrow.  She is so desperate that shes making up stories about getting the money back from the crooks and other people. There is no money, its gone.
     Therese also has a standing case against Amazon Books UK for continuing to sell her book after she discontinued service with them 5 years ago. We followed her as much as we could with this but it was always a dead end on how to get her the money owed and get her book off the site.  We are at a loss as to how to help her with it.
     She has been living 2 years for trade by looking after a 90 yr old lady.  All her things are in storage, But we don’t know at this moment if she lost them due to no money to pay for it.   She is so unhappy because its not her place and has none of her belongings, has no freedom, too many steps for her knees and is dark and cold.  Its so far away from town, an exhausting  2hr one way trip just to go shopping or do anything or make anything happen with friends.  We are so grateful she had this place to  live, but she is being evicted now as they need a healthy young respite worker.    We have been tricked by her saying she is always fine and her fantasy stories and didnt see the signs leading her down this path untill now. And now we are in a critical situation scrambling to help.
     This Gofund me campaigning is to get me to Palma de Mallorca, Spain from Canada and back with her. To give her first emergency response and medical help.  To get her healing food and medicine once there to get her well to travel. 
     Therese holds a Canadian passport.  And If she comes to Canada, I would set her up first here in Edmonton to heal her and then maybe on Vancouver Island as the weather elsewhere would be unmanageable, and she has family in Nanimo.  
      If you know how to help her out in Edmonton with clean, very cheap,no steps in suite, quiet lodging in the 99 &82ave area, and On Van Island near Nanimo,  Courtney or Victoria this would be fantastic.  She would be on social assistance needing a home, a lil car,  and an understanding loving community.  
    I will be in Mallorca soon.  Right now thanks to everyone I have money for a retun plane ticket there and am knowing more is coming in steadily to bring her back asap.

We are asking you for help as we cant do it on our  own right now.  It seems that her three kids are all at the beginning of their successful  financial budding- awaiting blossoming,  and are just not able at this moment to financially help her.   Any kind of assistance would be ever so valuable.   Thank you everlastingly so much for your donations and desire to help.  SO GRATEFUL!!
 Nineca, Chris and Kimo heart beams!

This is a list of what her immediate needs are as of now.

She needs
-A free home for a couple of weeks to a maximum of two months but Ideally Ide have her sorted and booked to go back in 3 weeks.   This home needs to include me as I need to be close to her and not staying with friends as she is very emotionaly fragile.  A home taking a cat, or a large quiet room on a main floor or elevator, not far with out steps or hill from a bus stop. This is while I and team assess her situation and get her immediate mental and medical help.
-Free Lawyer dealing in rental- health and sanitation matters
-A free lawyer to help her sue a case against Amazon Books UK for continuing selling her book after she discontinued with them.  This has been ongoing for over 5 years.
For me to help her:
     I need a car to borrow right away when I get there for a few weeks to maximum a month. (Ive a clean drivers record and am a calm defensive driver), or  someone who rents them real cheap as a favor to my moms cause.
    
   Any donation to her assistance fund will be greatly appreciated, as the need is serious. In the near future, a reward system will be set up, so please stay tuned for that as well.   This campaign is being run by her three children who love her very much and wish to see her rebound and continue to live a productive and happy life.
   Please spread the word if you can.  Gratitude and Heart Beams Abound!
 --------------------------------------------------------------------

  Esta es la situacion de mi Mama Therese, o Tere.
Porfavor al leer esto mantengan a mi madre en su mente ya alegre y sanada, porque viendola o sintiendo mal por ella no la ayuda.  Muxas gracias enromes!!

   Tere siempre dio mas de lo que tenia.  Tuvo exito con sus negocio de salud alternativa y tuvo 3 hijos fabulosos, a los cuales les dio todo y aun daria.

  Mi mami perdio todo su dinero en group de abogados que la dejaron estafada en una inversion, por lo cuanto perdio toda su inversion.  Ella ha tenido problemas de vivenda desde hace 5 anos.

  Ace que vive con una anciana mas de dos anos y pico, en una casa, que no es suya, donde experimento mucha incomodidad y depresion.  No puede vivir aya mas porque quieren a otra persona que haga este trabajo. Vive de una pension de 300 euros, tiene dos gatos, y todas su possessions estan en un almacen o las perdio a causa de no poder pagar, no se sabe.

  Tuvo un problema de salud hace tres años que duro dos años, que la dejo devastada en la piel.  No quiere ver a gente porque esta mal de la piel y se siente horrible y no quiere pensar en nadie. Mi madre no pidio ayuda porque no sabe.  Esto es acausa de estado sola y luchando poque su pasado la ha dejado bien mal. Ella fue abusada toda su vida por sus padres y ex-marido.  Tambien muchas otras personas que ella, sin saber, dejo que se aventajen de una persona con problemas de auto valoracion y auto estima. Sus padres le dijeron que ella no valia dada y no seria nada nunca.  I que pedir ayuda s ve mal y no se ace.

  Entoces ella nunca pudo salir de esa historia que tiene en la mente, y ahora pues esta atascada. Por los mucho años difíciles de haber estado en Mallorca le ha dañado la moral.  Tere tiene una depresion enorme haciendo que se invente historias para no sentir la realidad de su situacion, que es total impotencia de cambiar su situacion.  Esto es depresion.  No quiere hablar con nadie inclusive nosotros porque se siente avergonzada y quiere cubrir su situacion para aparentar que esta bien. Lleva haciendo esto mucho tiempo.
     Nosotros los tres hijos Kimo Chris y Nini la vamos a ayudar con el gol de llevarnosla a Canada de inmediato.  
     Esta recaudacion de fondos publica espara recaudar fondos para billetes de avion, ayuda medica y con la trasicion de Mallorca a Canada, y para empezar una vida nueva.

   Yo tengo que volver a Canada lo mas pronto possible.
Nesesito unas ayudas muy importantes al llegar a Mallorca:
       ---Una recojida del aeropuerto.
      ---Un coche prestado por un mes mas o menos. Soy excelente conductora sin accidentes previos.
      ---Una vivienda para dos personas sin escaleras, silencioso, no fumadora, central y gratis durante el mes mas o menos.  Esto para poder sanarla para viajar, organizarla y prepararla mentalmente para mudarse a Canada.
  
Muxisimas gracias por leer, por darnos vuestra atencion y ayuda y por vuestro apollo!
  Muxo amor Y Luz radiante

Organizer

Nineca Eca Weca
Organizer
Edmonton, AB
  • Medical
  • Donation protected

Your easy, powerful, and trusted home for help

  • Easy

    Donate quickly and easily

  • Powerful

    Send help right to the people and causes you care about

  • Trusted

    Your donation is protected by the GoFundMe Giving Guarantee