The unexpected Congenital cholesteatomas

I recently took Jax to the ENT expecting to talk about tubes and learned he had Congenital cholesteatoma. He has had it since birth and gone undetected till now. He will have to undergo multiple surgeries. His Ct scan did show it intertwined in his ear bones and is already corroding one. There is talk of a possible prosthesis but that is down the road after all the surgeries. I’m a single mom so you can understand the expenses and time off work adds up. I’m also out of PTO so each surgery and recovery time I will not get paid. If you can help it is well appreciated. All prayers are welcomed