As a “strong independent woman™” I usually pride myself in being able to take care of things by myself and to do it with flare.

However, The past year brought with it challenges that have left me completely financially depleted and reeling.

Long story short, and without slander or vendetta, there were multiple miscommunications or unfortunate mistakes in the second half of 2024 within my employer’s payroll department that ultimately resulted in the depletion of my savings, and for the first time ever - a missed mortgage payment, service interruptions, and an (incredibly rude, if I may say so myself,) introduction to being trapped in the debt cycle.

Although I have been working to expand my professional opportunities and impact (and some exciting announcements are coming soon), the promise of future income can’t help me right in this moment.

my ‘independent woman meets chainsaw’ mishap yesterday really became a cherry on top of this extra large prolonged turd sundae that’s been on my plate since last summer.

So here I am, humbled. Feeling like I’ve been sinking in a pit of quicksand for a year. Moving every which way to try to get myself out. And now, defeated and tired, I have finally been reduced to being still and sincerely asking for a helping hand to get back on solid ground.

It’s not an easy time for anyone. I am keenly aware.

If you’d be willing to pitch in even $5 for an early birthday “cheers”or as a gesture of support it would sincerely make an impact on my quality of life right now.

Any money donated over the requested amount will be used to pay off credit. 

Once I can find a way to repay your generosity or am able to offer you a hand up in return, I will joyously do so. If you can’t give financially, writing me a quick note of how I’ve impacted you or been a part of your story or made you smile would be as equally valuable to me in this physical and psychological healing process.

With humility, peace, and love.