I'd like to start by thanking you for taking your time to read about my friend and consider helping him and his family out.
Who knows that guy that can kinda be a shit but is also the guy that will do anything for anyone else? The guy that sucks it up and does what is needed to take care of his family and friends. The guy that doesn't always take care of himself because he's taking care of others or just too busy with life. The one that can be too proud to ask for help.
I know one of those guys. He's a former coworker, and my friend. He helped train me when I moved to a different department and was feeling very unsure of myself. After training he continued to guide me and would spend hours a day in my ear. He was always there when I had a question or to problem solve. There were plenty of times we would get on each other's nerves but I always knew I could call of I needed him. I could even call him when we weren't working. He has always been willing to lend a hand and without expecting anything in return. He has invited me to his home, introduce me to his family and friends, and fed me. He's a husband, father, and grandfather. He's also a volunteer firefighter. He's done so much for others but is now in need of help for himself and his family.
My friend's name is Shane. And I imagine he's not going to be very happy with me. But I care about him and I want to help so I'm not really worried about that. Shane's foot has bothered him for awhile now. You know not enough to really stop him or even send him to a doctor, but still enough to make him complain about it, a lot. Finally, after it was clear it wasn't getting any better but actually worse he got it checked out. If feels like it took forever to find out he had actually broken his foot months ago. The bad news continued after seeing an ortho surgeon and finding out there was a bone infection. The wait was too long and Shane had to have his foot amputated. Out of respect for Shane and his family I ask that no one shares opinions on whether or not there was a way for this to be avoided. Either way, now is the time to help Shane move forward.
I know Shane has has health insurance but there will still be medical bills from the ambulance ride, surgery and hospital stay, physical therapy, and a prosthetic. Shane is still in the hospital and will be unable to work for a decent amount of time. Short term disability only pays a portion of his income. His wife Darcy is employed but will need to take time off for Shane's care and follow up appointments. Shane still has a mortgage and 2 kids at home. My only goal is to try and help offset some of their financial stress while he focuses on getting back on his feet! (Pun intended...too soon? Not if you know Shane!)
If you've read this far just one last thought. After the year we have all had I imagine it hard for anyone to ask for help. So many of us have worried, struggled to overcome obstacles, and lost love ones. This knowledge weighs heavily on all of our minds. It's difficult to stay positive and have the grit to pull ourselves through the dark time. I truly believe it helps ourselves when we find a way to help others. It doesn't take a lot, just enough people working together to help a little adds up! If you can't help financially no worries! Share, please share; help me help my friend, myself, and others. If you pray, do that too! Any type of support is welcome and appreciated. Thank you again for caring and acknowledging my friend's need for support. Together we are stronger!
Who knows that guy that can kinda be a shit but is also the guy that will do anything for anyone else? The guy that sucks it up and does what is needed to take care of his family and friends. The guy that doesn't always take care of himself because he's taking care of others or just too busy with life. The one that can be too proud to ask for help.
I know one of those guys. He's a former coworker, and my friend. He helped train me when I moved to a different department and was feeling very unsure of myself. After training he continued to guide me and would spend hours a day in my ear. He was always there when I had a question or to problem solve. There were plenty of times we would get on each other's nerves but I always knew I could call of I needed him. I could even call him when we weren't working. He has always been willing to lend a hand and without expecting anything in return. He has invited me to his home, introduce me to his family and friends, and fed me. He's a husband, father, and grandfather. He's also a volunteer firefighter. He's done so much for others but is now in need of help for himself and his family.
My friend's name is Shane. And I imagine he's not going to be very happy with me. But I care about him and I want to help so I'm not really worried about that. Shane's foot has bothered him for awhile now. You know not enough to really stop him or even send him to a doctor, but still enough to make him complain about it, a lot. Finally, after it was clear it wasn't getting any better but actually worse he got it checked out. If feels like it took forever to find out he had actually broken his foot months ago. The bad news continued after seeing an ortho surgeon and finding out there was a bone infection. The wait was too long and Shane had to have his foot amputated. Out of respect for Shane and his family I ask that no one shares opinions on whether or not there was a way for this to be avoided. Either way, now is the time to help Shane move forward.
I know Shane has has health insurance but there will still be medical bills from the ambulance ride, surgery and hospital stay, physical therapy, and a prosthetic. Shane is still in the hospital and will be unable to work for a decent amount of time. Short term disability only pays a portion of his income. His wife Darcy is employed but will need to take time off for Shane's care and follow up appointments. Shane still has a mortgage and 2 kids at home. My only goal is to try and help offset some of their financial stress while he focuses on getting back on his feet! (Pun intended...too soon? Not if you know Shane!)
If you've read this far just one last thought. After the year we have all had I imagine it hard for anyone to ask for help. So many of us have worried, struggled to overcome obstacles, and lost love ones. This knowledge weighs heavily on all of our minds. It's difficult to stay positive and have the grit to pull ourselves through the dark time. I truly believe it helps ourselves when we find a way to help others. It doesn't take a lot, just enough people working together to help a little adds up! If you can't help financially no worries! Share, please share; help me help my friend, myself, and others. If you pray, do that too! Any type of support is welcome and appreciated. Thank you again for caring and acknowledging my friend's need for support. Together we are stronger!
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Darlene Sunderland
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