Hi there! I am raising money to relocate away from the small town where all of my abusers live, as I am in eminent danger the longer I stay here. I had to file multiple restraining orders at the beginning of this year because of the sustained abuse, stalking, and harassment I have endured for decades at their hands. Any funds donated will go towards helping me find safe housing away from all of them. Many of them have ties to the legal systems, medical systems, and religious institutions. They hid behind these institutions because they believe that their status, influence, and power will protect them.

A little of a backstory, I am no contact with my entire family because of how abusive they are. I haven't spoken to most of them in decades because I do not have their support and never have. The only person who supported me in the slightest emotionally was my father and he passed away when I was 16 years old. From there, my own "mother" (although I prefer the term birthgiver) stopped parenting me completely and left me to fend for myself. I have worked since I was 16 years old to provide for myself and even worked 4 jobs to put myself through college because of the lack of their support. She is extremely volatile and weaponized my mental health against me my entire life while refusing to go to therapy herself. She is a former nurse who weaponized the medical and legal systems against me my entire life and would threaten to institutionalize me any chance she got if I ever tried to speak up about her abuse and what she did to me as a child.

This past December, I broke free from a horrific trauma bond that lasted 5.5 years to an abusive partner that put me through psychological warfare on a daily basis and made my living environment extremely unsafe, all while blaming me for his treatment of me. I have brain lesions on MRI now from the sustained narcissistic abuse I have endured my entire life, but especially the past 5.5 years with this partner. Since I broke up with him, he and his family have tried to make my life a living hell when I tried to share my story, all while I want absolutely nothing to do with any of them. I am a former personal trainer and my hip was injured badly by this partner in October to the point where I had to step back and close my small business that I ran (a women's only gym). I found out he was cheating on me, which was my last straw to where I finally found the courage to leave him/kick him out of the residence we shared.

Since I kicked him out of the apartment we shared, he and his entire family have gone on to slander my name with lies, file false reports, stalk me online to the point where I had to delete all of my social media, and violated many of my rights. Abusive men are great at playing victim to avoid accountability for their atrocious behavior towards you, because more often than not their entire family enables their disgusting and atrocious behavior towards women because they themselves do not like strong-minded women.

Any donations will go towards securing new housing for myself to escape all of the people who have tried to utilize their power and influence to control me/my life. Thank you in advance!