Wendi and TJ have always been the kind of people who handle life’s challenges independently. Asking for help does not come easily to them. They also want to be very clear: they hold nothing but respect for anyone who has turned to GoFundMe in the past. Everyone’s circumstances are different, and right now, theirs have changed in ways they never expected.
Recently, Wendi received disappointing news in her breast cancer journey. During her double mastectomy, cancer was found in her lymph nodes. As a result, she will now need radiation and possibly chemotherapy. This means significantly more treatment, recovery time, and time away from work for both Wendi and TJ. TJ will now need to take FMLA leave to help care for Wendi—time that will be unpaid. TJ's loss of income during this time of caretaking is the biggest stressor they are facing.
Even with good insurance, the financial impact is substantial. High deductibles, co-pays, additional medical bills, and more intensive reconstruction after radiation are creating expenses that are difficult to manage all at once. The added strain of reduced income during this time only compounds the challenge.
If you feel comfortable contributing, any amount is deeply appreciated and will help ease the financial stress so Wendi and TJ can focus on healing and getting through the months ahead together. If you’re unable to donate, your support, kindness, and good thoughts mean just as much. Thank you for being part of their community.

