I’m creating this fundraiser during the hardest time of my life. I recently lost my partner of 12 years. He was my person — the one who showed up for me when I was sick, exhausted, or overwhelmed. Even when he wasn’t feeling well himself, he still took care of me. That kind of love changes you, and losing it leaves a space that feels impossible to describe.

Right now, I’m trying to grieve while also handling funeral arrangements and day-to-day bills. We shared life together, and losing him has meant losing emotional support and financial stability at the same time. I’m doing my best to stay strong, but the reality is that I need help to get through this moment. The costs of the funeral, travel to lay him to rest in another state, and keeping up with our mortgage and bills have added up quickly. Without insurance or savings to cover these unexpected expenses, I am reaching out for help from my community.

Any support will help with immediate and ongoing expenses as I get through this period. Your kindness and generosity will make a real difference as I try to rebuild and honor his memory. Thank you for anything you can give.